Which is the reason of breakage of marriage life?

Let us not blame only the third party for ruining one's married life. Such person could cause some misunderstanding in the minds of the couple. However, who is to decide what is right and what is wrong? Either husband or the wife. Here the third party does not get involved even when such crooked person does leave an influence in the minds of either or both of them. The main problem comes when one partners does not surrender to his/her ego and refuses to listen to partner. Such person does not think logically and gradually matter is aggravated to such an extent that both refuse to talk to each other. One has to pacify own ego and give respect to partner's view-points.

understanding is the most important part in marriage life.when understanding from partner is gone the marriage life is impossible.there will be so much jealous persons near and dear and they will try to break up those relations by telling wrong about your partner and make them dizzy.but an understanding wife/husband will not believe.thats the thing that makes life happy and prosperous

For me one major cause that a marriage would break is yes a Third Party. Once one of the has a third party in a marriage, disrespect,insensitivity and growing apart would set in that will ultimately destroy the marriage.

I think it depends on how strong the bond is between the husband and wife. If the relationship is a good solid relationship with alot of trust then the third party will not be able to start the problems. If theres weak trust and already other issues like poor communication the third party will have an easy time starting trouble in that marriage. The situation is sad that two people dont come together and work threw it.

the main reason that they find that they are leading their life to a bigger misunderstanding so the fault lies from beigning of the marriage where they dont realize what they are looking in thier partner for and when there is a great mismatch then these dual condition of error arise among the two people. these kind of situatin also lead to greater trouble to thir child if they have. the only big solution to thisproblemis to understand ach other and fell the necessity thay both feel need in thir life tosuced and make their married life for to live happily ever after, beyond this there is no solution

Break the sweet running marriage life because of misunderstanding so try to discuss with partner when if any doubt in mind comes.

Third person cannot ruin a marriage Vaishali . THere is no child marriage these days. Adults get married and if there is that bit of extra compromise in one person [there is no absolute equality here] the equation between the couple would set itself right.THe fundamental desire to make the marriage work must come from the man and the woman.Now who is to make the compromise would depend on an individual I have seen couples . WHen there is soem fundamental problem like dislike and incompatibility the marriage breaks. When it is a matter of a battle of wills obviously the strongert person would win.If the man decides to leave the girl or the girl decides to leave the man , it would also be a case of who is more dependent on the other, financially, physically, emotionally and psychologically.

I don´t think a third person can ruin a marriage, friend. The marriage must be broken before in order to let another person come. If the couple love and respect each other, if they understand fully what the marriage means, they can sort out their problems when they are small. I have heard many times of men cheating on their wives. I talked to my husband about it once and he replied that he thought that there should be as many cheating men as cheating women. I had not thought about it. Then we continued this conversation and he showed the women we knew. So many of them quit caring about themselves after they had children! So many of them would not show their husband that they cared for him! At this poit, if another woman comes along offering the man a lost paradise, he will take it many times. I think that this goes for women too. Our husbands must not forget the small but important things they did for us before marriage. And they must also take care of keeping their looks as much as they can. We all age with time, but we don´t have to age at a quick pace by eating too much and drinking to much. Take care!

MISUNDERSTANDING, LOOSING OF FAITH IN ONE and many the root cause of breakage of the marriage life..

When we are getting married my husband was in Germany. i am in srilanka. it took one year to get visa to germany for me. So we are apart for one year. in this period so many devils danced in my familie. poisened my husbands mind. Sa after coming here in Germany we had always disputes and querells. it took several years to solve this problem. Though it was hard we were together. so little by little the devils vanished away. now we are all alone. living happily.

A third party can contribute to an already failing marriage. But third parties cannot break up a marriage unless that is exactly what they intended to do from the get go. However the person this third party is messing with allows the marriage to go down the tubes, it is simply because they do not value their commitment. It is my personal opinion that sometimes people just out grow their relationships, for as petty as that sounds, today people just do not realize that marriage is not something you enter into lightly. It is an everyday, year after year compromise. A marriage is a communal entity where both parties have to agree to disagree sometimes.

Hey i dont think that a third party can ruin a person's happly married life although you are saying that it has happend to somebody you have known. Basically to keep a good marriage going you need to have love and trust for one another if you dont have that then you dont get anywhere and nowadays the divorce rates are so high becouse couples just cant find happiness even famous celebrities who probably had a successfull prolonged marriage for years and years it all shatters in the end what was the reason "not compatible" so my views on this is that anybody with a bit of commonsence would not listen to a third party and they will decide whats best for them although its true when your not thinking streight you tend to get manipulated by other people so that part is very understandable