the ex- is saying bad things about me in their facebook thread???
By p3ks626
@p3ks626 (6538)
Philippines
July 14, 2010 4:27am CST
Well, it was like this. My husband was tagged in a photo and a lot of their classmates and friends and his ex was there but the ex- was blocked in his account so she wont be able to see the comments and my husband wont see her comments. I know they were talking about my husband so I unblocked the ex- in my husband's account to find out what they were talking about. I was shocked to know that she was saying bad things about me when in fact i dont do anything to her. She was saying that I was the one who blocked her and that she's telling all the people there that I should not worry cause she doesnt have any plans of getting my husband. I was really mad when I found out about that, and I want to do something. But what should I do?
My friends were telling me not to stoop down to her level. And that I should not say anything about it and not do anything about it. She is really very indecent. I didnt do anything to her. I am so mad now I want to destroy her life.
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4 responses
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Based on what she did, she not worth your time and explanation, so it would be better for you to just ignore her. Because whatever you say even if your intention is good, it will always be negative for her. Just stay quiet about the issue, and let her worry about something that she did. It will just pass. After few weeks and if you will not comment on anything, the issue will just die as if nothing happened.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Yeah! I was thinking about that too. I think it will pass after a few weeks but after few more weeks she's going to do something like that again. What a psycho! And you are right about she's going to take everything that I am going to say negatively if I am going to react about what she said.
I just wonder why she is so envious of me. Just was trying to say bad things about me but with what she did, she is demeaning herself.
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Probably you are much more beautiful than her and you are loved by your husband, that's why she's so desperate to do or say anything bad about you, thinking that people will believe her, without her realizing that she is just putting herself in a big embarassment. So don't stoop down to her level. Who knows, you friends might just be laughing about all her comments.
@nunubanget (130)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 10
Just ignore her. You'll be like someone she said when you respond her post.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
Yeah! You are right! Thank you for this reminder. These things that you're telling me now is helping me.
And if I am going to say something about it, I think she will really like it cause she was being noticed and I think that's one of her reasons in telling people that so they will have their sympathy.
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
I also think you shouldn't mind her. I mean, people like that do the things they do and say the things they say about other people because they just can't get over the fact they're not happy with their lives and other people are. I think the reason why she did that because she's comforting and telling herself that it is not her ex who blocked her and who's ignoring her. You should pity her and just ignore her. =)
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
Thank you for the confroting words guys. I find that very helpful now that I dont have my anybody from my family I can talk about it. But I think you are right that she doesnt like the fact that she is being ignored. She's really insecure and wants people's attention.
And yeah! I should pity her!
