I need to know what a girl likes

@mchu519 (465)
United States
November 17, 2006 12:35am CST
How can I get your attention in a positive way to start a conversation? What do girls generally like to talk about with a guy? What should I not say or do during a first impression conversation with a girl? If you have anything to suggest please post. I will experiment with your responses.
11 responses
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I feel in love with my husband because he did not put on a act. He was himself. We were frinds before we were married so I married my best frind. I hated a guy to use "lines" with me. That is so fake and gals pick up on that immediately. That is if you are looking for "that special" gal. Just be nice and talk about the things you have in common.
@mchu519 (465)
• United States
18 Jan 07
I agree with you because some guy just came up to my sister and ask for her number and she didn't give it to him. They use all these lines, but they don't really work. I guess the first thing is to be friends first like you did. So I would try not to have any intentions and then just see how it flows.
• India
17 Nov 06
Be urself.....:) do not pretend. Gals appreciate honesty the most
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@mchu519 (465)
• United States
24 Nov 06
But the first thing to do is I need to get a good first impression before I can start being myself.
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@jzcb87 (1797)
• United States
17 Nov 06
Just be yourself. Alot of times, girls can see right through you if you're fake. They may give you a chance, but they know. In the long run not being yourself wouldn't be so helpful anyway. Think about it this way though: If a girl doesn't like you for you, then you really aren't meant to be, and then move on to the next potential girlfriend/friend or whatever.
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@macubx (11414)
• Philippines
17 Nov 06
make them laugh - its the best way for getting girls, works for me, i do it all the time..
@nw1911guy (1131)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I keep hearing that but somehow I always end up just a friend. lol
@zgb_0001 (1381)
• Pakistan
17 Nov 06
Flower,chocolate ect...
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@mchu519 (465)
• United States
17 Nov 06
Thats good please give me more.
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• United States
17 Nov 06
If you don't mind advice from an old married woman, I would suggest not being too pushy, show consideration above all things and don't lie.
@mchu519 (465)
• United States
17 Nov 06
Thanks, any advice that help is good.
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@Solja420 (2503)
• United States
17 Nov 06
me
@mchu519 (465)
• United States
17 Nov 06
lol you suck dude. JP
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@tamaki (100)
• China
17 Nov 06
i also want to know
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• United States
17 Nov 06
Someone who listens and is understanding and doesn't lie.
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@shah_1448 (156)
• India
18 Jan 07
Girls like serious people.
• Greece
20 Jan 07
well i will tell you what not to talk about. football and sports including bettings. cars and motorbikes. politics. some hobbies like fishing or hunting. your experiences from the army. and that leaves a lot of things to talk about. believe me. sofia
@mchu519 (465)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Thanks Sofia. That is good thing for me because I can't relate to any of those topics you just mentioned. The more advice the better. Thanks.