He's a true sucker for love
By keshia2007r
@keshia2007r (2880)
United States
July 14, 2010 1:59pm CST
Ok, here is the story. My friend is such a sucker for love it really makes me sick, but of course I don't say anything about it. He bascially falls for a girl and in love w/ a girl really fast. He can for sure get hurt that way. He is on girlfriend number 4 or 5 compared to my 1 boyfriend (almost a 3 year long relationship). He just broke up with one girl maybe a month an a half ago. And is now with a new girl, he says they've known each other for awhile, and they're finally in a relationship, and he tells me he's in love w/ her. They haven't been a couple a full month yet, but its ok because he "known her for awhile" and the girlfriend brought up marriage, and he said he would marry her, but he's not in the position to spoil her like a wife should be. BTW he's a great guy. What do you think about this? O and this might help. he's 19 going on 20 in october!! im 21. the girlfriend, maybe 18-19 years old.
4 responses
@mrcol1010 (209)
• United States
15 Jul 10
I think this guy should go to a therapist or something to help with his problem.
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
17 Jul 10
WE don't use therapy, and he does not have a problem. Thanks for your advise, but I'll pass on it.
@Beautyfactor (1512)
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14 Jul 10
I know lot's and lot's of guys who are like this and fall in love at the drop of a hat. Unfortunateñy they get hurt too, and me being a good friend has to pick up the pieces of the broken hearts.
I don't want to sound like I am generalising, but it is the majority of men, rather thn my female friends, who act like this and fall in love after just a couple of dates. I am not sure his age has anything to do with it because my husband and I were at this age when we first met.
I guess your friend has still not learned from his past relationships, ans while it is all very exciting and easy to get carried away in the first throws of it all, true love only stands the test of time.
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
14 Jul 10
You're right true love only stands the test of time. Thank you for your comment and advise. I never figured age really don't have anything to do with guys falling in love, now I do. Looking back at it, i think you're right. No one wants to see their friend when they're down, hopefully she's the right one, for his sake.
Again thank you!!
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Jul 10
I think he should settle down before marriage or else he will marry the girl and then he may find someone else after a few months. Actually the girl needs to decide weather he is the right guy for her. And you need to make him understand that he is too early to get into a wedlock.
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Thank you for your comment and advise!! Peace and Love!!
