advice

Well i usually take up her words and somtimes advice if she worries too much for any stuffs.

Unfortunately, my mom is so unlike other moms. She is not the one who would really welcome and listen to advices from her children, especially when those advices are unsolicited. I remember the time when I said something that I thought was nice and meant to help her out further, but she took it negatively. After that, I became careful in chooosing what to say to her. I don't obey her words blindly, of course. I just hear her out and decide for myself since I am already of age and I don't live under her roof anymore. Don't get me wrong, though. I love her but there are some things that she forgets sometimes - for instance, that her children are not robots or puppets, that we are capable of making our own decisions, and that we're not perfect, just like her.