Falling Fast
@candycane15161 (46)
United States
July 14, 2010 8:31pm CST
So I my ex boyfriend broke up with me the day before memorial day. Before that I was hanging out with this guy I knew for about three years. We kept hanging out and he ended up being there for me everyday and night. I knew he was moving about 10 hours away so I didn't want to fall for him. He told me he wanted to kiss me like the third nite in and it kinda just gave in from there. We both didn't want to fall for each other, but we did. Now we have been together for about a month and it feels like it has been forever. I don't want him to leave. A part of me wants to go with him. I will go with him if he wants me to which I think he does, but his parents don't know that we are going out. They think we are just friends with benefits or something like that. I find it a little funny. I think this sounds horrible because I had just ended a serious relationship. It seems like it all happened on accident because I tried to stop it, but it just happened. It was so unexpected. We both wanted each other, but didn't know about it. Idk if that is normal or what. Doesn't it seem horrible. I had my ex trying to get back with me but I didn't wanna tell him I was with somebody else. It would sound like I cheated but I didn't. I don't know what I will do when he leaves.
1 response
@Bellapop (1279)
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18 Jul 10
I think it will work out ok if you just carry on going out with him, 10 hours isn't too bad, although it is a bit far out. It will be a test to see if both of you will stick it through. If you both really like each other this short distance shouldn't be much of an issue, it's not like he's moving to another continent... you guys can still keep in touch by phone, internet, computer, webcam. Arrange to meet up over holidays, if it does really work out then one of you may decide to move to the other anyway, but at this age, you just need to test it out first, I don't want to sound patronizing but at thisage evrything can seem a big deal and if it's going to work out it will if you guys do really like each other, because both of you will be willing to make sacrifices, make the effort to see each other...if not, then you'll know where this relationship is heading... I hope this helps, and hope you guys work it out, if the worse comes, you'll still be good friends...
