Do you feel teenagers in love are succesful these days?

I really rarely hear for those teenagers that are lovers who settled longer until marriage. Yes it is true, it is not wrong to be in love at younger age because that is part of human being. But the problem is most of them are not yet matured enough to face the challenges in relationship. Some of them are just playing around by fooling someone else's feelings. I mean they are enjoying to see the fact that others are being jealous because of them and somebody is fighting over them. They must understand what true love is.

yes i agree with you^^ for a relationship the most important is really care for each other and not just the physical part. sure we need to have strong feelings for the person and love the person before we do that. thats what i think and for a relationship both need to effort and both need to care and not just one of them. and sometimes in many relations just one of them is doing all for it so if we really love someone and are in a relationship we must always show him or her what they mean to us and how much we love them^^

I cannot agree with you more . Love is a feelings between tow people , not getting physical . If someone just want to get physical , the love will be not long between a couple . Do you think so , friends ?

Personally, I think the problem with the young with regard to love is they think they're in love when they're really infatuated. They later realize this when their infatuation for their partner has subsided, but they can no longer get out of the relationship because they got married. You're right, though it's not that they don't know what love is. Rather, they don't know if what they have is really love. But of course, love is always a choice. If your infatuation subsided and yet you chose to love the one you're with, then good for you! You're not one of those miserable people wanting to get out of their marriage! lol.

I feel as teenagers, that's exactly what we're missing and why so many teen couples fall down the same hole. - Love has to be felt first, and not by getting physical. I thought this was well said. I know because I've fallen down that hole myself and have learnt from it.

I agree with you. and about teenagers in love, i can say most of them are fail in understanding true love, and most of them are end up broke, though since me myself are a teenager, i think i can understand which is true love and which is a "short" love. I have someone that i really love and someone that i love just for fun ;)

Love is neither felt or physical. It's a choice. A willful act, deciding that this other person is so valuable to you, that you pledge even if they hurt your feelings, or make mistakes, that they are your single most important person on the planet. Saying love is a feeling is dangerous, because feelings come and go. I can't count the number of people who foolishly say "I just don't feel love for her/him anymore". That's because there never was love to begin with. It was just a feeling. I wager this is the main reason why so many couples fail.

Aha,may be this discussion is discussing me and my boy.We are both college students,and we have been together for 2years.From the very begining we were just good friend,and we found that we had fallen in love with each other,then we together.In the 2years ,we have experienced so many things,such as the problem of his home's finacial,our study,our parttime work.And the most difficult period in our love was when he got sick and lived in hospital,he couldn't go back to school,just took medicine and live in hospital for a month,I did everything what I can for him ,and help him to catch up his study,encouragred and accompaniend him to fight his ill. We don't know how our future is ,we don't know how long we can be together either.We also afriad that one day we will break up because our parents,our work,or our future plan.But we love each other deeply,and at this moment,we can't live without each other,so we keep being together,and we will try our best to be together for ever.

Lack of understanding and after or before marriage they come across realities and facts of life

They are dating too much always ready to the next one and thinking too much about the looks. I've heard about decisions to get married made by the way they are in bad, or because she's beautiful or he is... And the freedom, the only reason people in other decades were holding on to a failed marriage was because people judged too much back then.

we all want to develop and experience true love with special someone who comes in our live young couple,teenagers, adult at the right place at the right time but apparently not everyone don't know how we really gain true love.It is connecting our thoughts and communicating it with the person but if that person is just looking for physical and says its the only way to show love and yet you don't feel something that is sincere enough it is just lust because a person cannot force you to do something when your not yet ready to that pure love is willing to wait no matter what the cause is..

i think yes.they dont have the maturity to know what is love or how to love.as in my case i am now only knowing what is love and what is the purpose of love.

yes i think it can ber sucessfull because the girl i luv stays very farm from me the problem is that that every body in my family noes about it an her grany is like u stay away from my daughter what can i say to her shezz raly older to me but then also i told her ya i luv her what u wana do u can do ...

I don't think teenagers are successful when it comes to love. Love isn't finding someone just because you want to involve in a relationship. Now a days, teenagers are not that totally in love with their partners. They want to have in a relationship because they want to be pampered, they want to be cared, they want to be loved and be loved.

i think these young college students think they are in love but dont have know reason to moive so fast they dont know what they are getting in to but you are right some times they get marry and 6 months latter they are breaking up and ever thing like that you know but the ones that end up miserably should have keep their minds in thoses books but they dont see that and it end up been pupple love not real love but dont get me wrong their are people out there who makes it in these hard times and they stay togather