Fangirl debates with her boyfriend
By oxyde_gyabo
@oxyde_gyabo (701)
Philippines
July 15, 2010 7:16am CST
I am the fangirl and my lover doesn't want me to be a fangirl. Especially with boybands and boy singers.
I have no intention of loving those boys because I am deeply in love with my boyfriend. Unfortunately he kept telling me that liking other boys by being fans is the same as betraying his feelings for me. I just like the band or singer because of their songs. There is nothing else but the love for the music.
How can I explain to him how being a fangirl is nowhere near cheating? Please help me. He's very upset and he kept silent whenever I talk to him about my favorite songs.
1 response
@paulgideon (11)
• India
15 Jul 10
I think your boyfriend is very possessive about you. He can't even imagine you with some other boy. But he has to understand that you love him very much. The best way is sit together and talk to each other, if that doesn't work out then don't tell him that you are a fan of this or that band. It is not that you have to express everything means if you are fan then the respect for that particular band can be kept in heart. If you like the song listen to it but don't tell your boyfriend that you are fan of that particular singer or band. If you want your boyfriend this has to be done. I think compromise is the part of the life. If he doesn't then you have to compromise.
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@oxyde_gyabo (701)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Thank you. I don't mind him being possessive because he is also very protective. He cannot stand anyone disrespecting me and I feel very secure with him.
I just hope he'd accept my kinds of interests.
I told him I'd quit being a fan of those bands and asked if it would be okay to still like the song. Unfortunately he haven't told me anything about it. He kept diverting the attention to another topic.
