Would ever marry a person you don't love?
By hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
10 responses
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Wait a minute. Don't ever do that. Marrying especially in our country is permanent and you have to endure all the negativity that comes along. Marrying for convenience is different and this you need to have a lot of guts. 
@dsplay5 (360)
• Bulgaria
15 Jul 10
Wait a minute! Marrying is permanent? What the heck is this? Are you serious? You're from the Philippines, and you mean that in the Philippines if you marry once, that's it and everything finished? Unbelievable! I heard that there have been governing some actors and players... Now I understand. I won't marry for a philippino. xD
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Yeah dsplay5, you can have a break-up with the one you marry but that is not official, at least in the eyes of the law, and in the eyes of God. You can always have another girl to accompany you for the rest of your life but not marry her. But then, if you have a lot of money to spend, you can always try our legal separation scheme here but it would take years before you can have it officially and it is not a sure you can get it. In the Philippines, we don't have divorce. So if you are planning to get a Filipina as a lawful wife, better think twice, you should love her with all your heart and mind . . . By the way, when a Filipino girl loves you, you sure you won't regret that you marry her, I assure you.
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 10
Well, well well, i think i will not do like that.
Personally, we need to think about the fact that we are going to spend the rest of their life with us. I suppose if we really like he/her and he/her loves us then we should go ahead but don't just get marry as guilt thing. If we honestly like him.her, and we are willing to make that commitment then my hat is of to you. lol
We should never marry someone unless we love them and are ready to spend the rest of our life with them. YEAH divorce is always an option if it don't work out but do we really want to go through that big of deal??
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
15 Jul 10
Yes, what you say is right..
So just you know in which wonderful world we are living.
Persons craving for the above mentioned things do not lead a happy life.
Every second of heir life will be spent only with problems and negative thoughts only.
It is better not to lead that rubbish life.
@mononoke (12)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
We had this discussion before with my friends: Is it right to marry out of love and just for money? I do believe in the sanctity of marriage. Marriage should be a union of two happy and loving couple tying the knot in front of the priest or judge and the Almighty God,not a union of two couple pretending to be happy. I really don't know what will happen in the future (i'm not yet married now), but I know I'll be marrying because of love.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Jul 10
I dont believe in marrying someone whom you dont love. It will be a different thing that you may lose your love on your spouse after marriage. There may be reasons for it.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
15 Jul 10
i dont think i could do it. to me being or getting married is specail
@freeboy90 (456)
• Italy
15 Jul 10
No, never, I could never marry someone just for money or else, I'd rather love someone very much, being loved back and have no money at all or without being married at all. Money is important now days to survive but being rich or high class is not really important, will make things probably easier but will take away a lot of things that "normal" people do have a can be considered much more valuable, such as real love and real true friends.
@dsplay5 (360)
• Bulgaria
15 Jul 10
The marriage is something very important for me, and it concerns some very important moral values in me. I would not marry for the profit from the person next to me... That's awful. Where is the love then? To love someone means to sacrifice yourself ( your wishes, etc.) for the person opposite.
@mac_mac1221 (478)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Nope, I won't. I'm very confident I won't do such thing. I'd rather choose the hard way to get the things I want in my life. Marriage is sacred for me - I don't want to tarnish its solemnity and holiness.:D
