He Still Wants ME

Hi...i dont know what went wrong between you guys. But i just wanna ask you??? Will you give him another chance if he would ask you. I definately will. I think he misses the days when you used to be in his arms. Its obvious to feel unconfortable when you dont love someone. I will definately give myself to my wife if she behaves like this with me after we fight or had an arguement.

Hi! I saw it (this post)late. I think there is nothing wrong if your husband kissed you and showed his affection towards you. May be, it was the result of separation and he would have missed you, when he was away from you. You need to take it easy and should not take it otherwise, hope things are better and cooler now?

Well, my mom used to tell me that her relationship with my dad continued unabated despite their differing personalities/beliefs and the distance (my father's job takes him all over the country) because they were lucky in that, even if one of them stops being in love, there is always a surge of it on the other. Not the passion per se, but just that feeling of warmth that we classify as love. Staying too long together can really test people's bonds, and my mother said that it was lucky that one of them always finds themselves rediscovering that love just as the other experiences the opposite, so there is always someone in the relationship keeping the marriage going. Perhaps that is what is happening to your husband right now. You two have reached the point in time when the passion cools down into companionship that is characteristic of marriages (after - what was it? - the first four years or so, I think) so your routine has become by rote. But maybe he's feeling that passion rekindling all over again and why he's acting the way he is. I think it's a good thing. It's weird for you because he's acting differently, right? But unless he's feeling guilty about something and covering that up by being ultra-sweet to you (which, hopefully is not the case), I think the fact that he's being sweet is good for your relationship. Maybe just go with the flow? Isn't it nice to have some surprise pampering? :D

People learn through passage of time. We are not perfect, and time gives us a chance to gain wisdom or better understanding. With that in point, God Willing your husband is now having a change of heart. He may not be vocal about it, most people aren't anyway. Try to encourage this positive change in him without being too obvious. For sure he is still prideful to ask help directly from you. Give him the benefit of the doubt, have faith and hope that he is really changing for the better. Godspeed to you and your family.

eurekafemme dear you need to be asking your husband what exactly he is thinking, before ten or twenty years go by or even one more day and he says I want out. Or you become so bitter with your life. Honey, you are both in this together, we are not here to judge, not in the least. Please wait until the children are in bed and ask your husband what is wrong with the relationship. A man does not like when a woman points out; you, you, you. So use both the relationship. Ask him hon, do not continue to be sadden by this as when you both married you were suppose to be there for better or for worse. A piece of advise also, if after the children are in bed and you want to discuss this with your hubby and he gives you fifty excuses about he tired, it was a long day or that he is tired. Then tell him you need to set a date and time, much like an appointment as you and he need to discuss the marriage. However, you must be prepared for the outcome. I will pray that you and he can resolved this. Good luck!

Do not give in to that! Do not be confused. He is not your lover. Circumstances just say he is the father of your children. Think of him as a sperm donor that hung around.

i think he changed his behaviour^^ for sure he saw that really loves you and doesnt want to lose you^^ so he is changing things for you both be happy^^ just accept his changes and care for him like you always did^^ also say to him how happy you are that he is changed now :) you just wanted this all the time for both to be happy^^ and now he understands it^^ for sure he saw that he was losing you and decided to change^^ just go for it and wish he be like this from now on^^

i think u are in love hmm .gud luv is gud u should love people and u are so beautifil whow dont want to be in love with u gud i proud that girls are still liking the guys now a days what should i tell u so badd.....

Hi there Ms. Femme, In this i can only say 2 things as a husband, its either he changed in a surprise because he wanna cover any of his business that makes you loose your trust on him, so that you'll not going to suspect him anymore. Or, during the time that he's far from you he realized how valuable you are, and he's so lucky having a wife like you but he didn't see it. You still there for him though he know he's guilty of something. The best way to know what is really it between this 2 is to talk, you should be both open to this, and I believe you can still make it, though people make mistake since we are just people, and we all need chances. I know I may be young to say these, just wanna help. Good luck to your family.