How to become a good boyfriend?

@markphil (285)
Philippines
July 16, 2010 4:02am CST
I had already 3 girlfriends not at the same time. They always left me without any good reason. I can't figure why. Please help me mylotters.
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6 responses
• Canada
16 Jul 10
Girls go for the sweet sometimes romantic guys. Girls like to feel important, so don't ditch her to do something else. For me thats something that hurts, it makes it feel like he'd rather be with someone else than with me. Make sure they know how much they mean to you! don't leave them clueless, tell them how much you care about them. I can't be sure of the reason they left you though, maybe they weren't ever in love with you. If they didn't give you any good reason though, maybe they are not the type of girl you would want to date anyway.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
You'll never know exactly what the problem is if nobody told you. However, I assume you're not that insensitive to fail to show how much you love them. I assume that you may be sweet, thoughtful and caring. But are you the type of guy who's very possessive, demanding and too clingy? You might have smothered them without you realizing. Or maybe, you just really get to hook up with bad girls. Don't worry. There will come a time when a woman will tell you what you have to work on because she'd rather want to be one of the persons who will make you a better person and exert no effort at all to leave you and go for an easier one.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
16 Jul 10
The question there is if they really love you? Maybe it just so happens that some of them realized that you are not the right guy for them.
• Portugal
16 Jul 10
i dont know mark :( im sorry for you. me i just had one bf. and we broke up bcs i was caring more for him than he for me. anyway to me what happens is guys always say they love me but then they never care as much as i do you know. when a guy says he loves me i want give him a chance to show it and they show in the beginning they say sweet words but then after awhile is like they stop to care that much. i dont know why but i always end like this too. i care so much for them but they never care that much for me :( anyway mark what about you? do you show much care for your gfs or you say to them you are busy many times? do you give many attention to them? you know we girls like attention and care. i dont know did you gave them enough care?
• India
16 Jul 10
please know their feelings towards you.you should be open to them.a girl need only care and protection.she may have problems with her families or you else you shouldn't have cared her.show your love and care towards her.maybe the three of your ex will come to you back.be careful when they know they are followers of some other girls you loved they will permanently go away
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
16 Jul 10
Maybe you should try and assess your priorities in life. Because most of the time, women want to be your number one priority. But of course, you have your own. When you find that out and the number one is to have a stable girlfriend, then you can focus on that which will make her feel important and maybe make things work out. But if you are still young, don't rush. Enjoy life while you're still young.