how do you feel when your best friend leaves you?
By rawr4muzic
@rawr4muzic (26)
India
July 16, 2010 5:50am CST
my best friend who had lived and enjoyed with me for more than 10 years has now left me forever...i met him 4 hours before his departure, but this took me emotionally and i almost cried...but i hid my feelings.I am very disappointed about myself that i couldn't give him my last regards.I was eating lunch when he left me. :( if any one out there have a suggestion that could keep my misery away...please help me
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19 responses
@westbird321 (232)
• India
29 Jul 10
Do u meant to say your friend to away place? If so then give a call and recall the moments u both had shared. But if he went for good work then u should be happy for him... Don't worry, m sure you guys will have opportunity to chill out again in coming future.... take care.... don't be senti, doesn't suit for boys
@pwnson (150)
• India
29 Jul 10
If my best friend leaves me,my whole world would go dark as yours. Best thing you can do is talk to him and ask him why is he leaving. And ya we weather its friends or family we always don't stay together.one has to leave one or another day.that's what life actually is.life is uncertain.nothing remains forever.one should except no matter what.okay you should let him go and let him also know how much you will miss him. I really hope my short advice will help you and make you feel good.all the best.
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
Try to chat or hang out with your other friends. For sure your best friend won't like it if you feel sad. And even if the two of you are miles apart, you can still communicate with each other. There are a lot of ways right now how to keep in touch with our friends and family. Even some long lost friends there are ways how we can find them. It's normal to feel that way and i want to share some quotes which my best friend wrote " When two friends are far apart, they're close at least in heart, they think each other still cause they care and always will"
@jose431 (164)
• India
26 Jul 10
I had a childhood friend but, unfortunately she leave me alone last week for some miss understanding happened between us. She leave me alone without any feeling in her mind.Even than I had a feelings for her and I always prayer for her to have a wonderful life.
@thunder915 (180)
• India
27 Jul 10
obiviously we feels sad when our best friend leaves us, naturally we become disappointed.Friends are our joys and happines. Without them our whole world will changed. But we should console our mind by saying that everyone is born to die and meet to depart. so please try to understand and enjoy the present not the past.
@phoenix867 (182)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yes it hurts a lot when we depart from each other.If we keep distance between us and if there is no communication,message between us then our relationship will vanish.If he/she goes some where and she is busy doing her works.If we keep our friendship strong there won be chances to lost our friend.So that we can contact each other to keep our friend ship fore ever.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
17 Jul 10
The bonds of friendship know no boundaries. When a best friend leaves your life for any reason, it is painful to you. You are left with emptiness in your heart. I know this from experience with a friend.
@Gany15k (1673)
• India
17 Jul 10
Oh..that is very bad..You should have been with him till he departures..I never missed my best friends...They are all together..If anything happens like that then I will be going mad ..not really but it will feel like that...I really don't know what i can suggest you..But you will be having some more friends right..Just move on and have time with them..It will be relaxing for sure...
hope you get rid of your sadness soon...
Happy mylotting
@informationshelter (111)
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16 Jul 10
At some point in life, people choose to follow different directions or they are forced to do so by reasons beyond their will. There should be some point in future, out of the blue, when friends and, moreover, best friends, may meet again, perhaps this time for good. You never know what life keeps right behind the corner, for you.
@dakimmora (28)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
I know its hard to be left by your bestfriend, but that's life. You need to accept because you even don't own your besetfriend. That's hard valuing too much a person. Me, myself is kinda numb a little.
@varshathakur (144)
• India
17 Jul 10
hey dony be disappointed. Friends are always with you but whole life they cant stay with you na. U call you friend and talk and you will surely feel nice and wish your friend all the luck
@shahrukhnf (168)
• United States
17 Jul 10
I yould feel realy bad we are very close to our best friend if they leave us then ill be very sad..
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 10
It's something that happens at one point in everyone's life. They will be left out by a close friend. It's entirely normal to feel resentment.
The thing to remember about friends is that although they may be your closet friend, you may not be theirs. As sad as that truly sounds, it does happen quite a bit. This may hit you like a ton of bricks, but that's true. In fact everyone at one point is guilty of this, you may not notice it, but you could be.
When you're left out, you may have to analyze first. What doest 'leave you out' mean? Does that mean that every time there's something going on that you have to be in on it? Are you jealous of that fact that your 'friends' get together without you?? Have you been in a bad mood lately or hard to get along with in recent weeks?? Are you under pressure??
Maybe from the answer you can solve a lot of problem regarding to FRIENDSHIP.
@stefanisaiah (167)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
I have a bestfriend too, but she is a girl, she marry american so she need to stay there. at first i'm sad knowing my day to day companion will no longer be in my side that I can easily cry unto or laugh with. thank God there is a net easy to chat with but still face to face talking is different. Do he have email? talk to him thru email. Talking is the only solution.
@rorisricha (732)
• India
16 Jul 10
Yeah it hurts a lot as if we are not going to meet them again in our life time and they are going to forget us. This and that a lot of feelings we get. We can't express them out or put them in words...but if at all your friend becomes busy after going there and he/she doesn't make out time for you. You don't stop staying in contact. It makes to break relationship thinking each other that they can talk or call or message or....communication gap creates distance between friends so stay in touch as usual like before.......A true friendship never breaks don't worry..cheer up....your friend is not going to leave behind......All the best...take care...bye friend..
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
16 Jul 10
You should call your friend more often and talk to him. You should just let him know about your feelings for him. Friends aren't friends if they leave out each other. We stick out for each other even when we are in the deepest of troubles. Having 1000 friends is not great but having one friend when thousands are against you is a great thing. If you feel that your friend in one such guy then you should never leave him. And i know you won't.
@mavhequijada (110)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Hi there. Don't fret. Wish the best for your best friend and you will be glad later on. I believe that good friends are forever but I don't believe that they're gonna stay that long as well. Always remember that even if you and your best friend are apart from each other now, that's only in distance but never in your hearts. Anyway, there are still a lot of means of communication. IM's, mobile phones, email, and many more. You don't need to miss him/her so bad. You'll see, someday you'll get over it. So cheer up and be happy!
@inviteme (67)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
I also have best friend for 12 years who left me; she went to Germany for good. But we have instant communication through texting, email, facebook and YM.
Being apart is not a hindrance to continue your friendship. There's a lot means of communication if you want to keep in touch to each other. Don't waste your 10 years for nothing just because you were apart.
@charmlenile (387)
•
16 Jul 10
it is sad but you know things changes and the earth revolves on the surface of the earth it is not end of the world you know. their so many things you can do. do not think negatively their will come a time he or she is going back.And people separate sometimes to explore and grow up. you cannot stay in your little corner doing nothing. we are in computer world connect with her. don't be sad! cheer up! Or else all of the mylotters will gonna sing for you he he he. just kidding! smile!