How will you forgive someone who doesn't ask for forgiveness?

You're under no obligation to let her back into your life. You probably should forgive her, if only for yourself, but that doesn't mean that you have to forget or let her be part of your life again.

well you forgive people not so much for them, but for yourself. because if you hold onto it, it will drive you nuts. but the trust for them is less then before and you kind be like ok yeah if they do the samething then you're not surpise. with me depend what it is i can forgive people. but if its something really bad then i do have trouble forgiving such as stealing from me, hurting someone in my family.

Hello wildflower. A person forgives for ones self as much as for the person doing you a wrong. would say that if tat person doesn't ask for forgiveness they will do the same thing to you again and again because they are not sorry. But forgiveness doesn't mean that you have to be friends or allow them back into your home or life again..

Dear friend... In my country, the best character of men in my country is altruistic...Maybe she has mistakes, but...somtimes you shoul think about yourself. You and your girl friend can discussion together straightly. Nobody is not has mistakes in the life. Enlarge your character, open your soul together and begin again. Happy a life!

We are urged and commanded by God to forgive so that we may be forgiven. It doesn't matter whether the person has asked for it or not. Its you the affected party who suffers most in the case of whether you forgive or not.

"If you don't forgive you will never grow" is the ancient saying.Yes it is correct even today.Even law recognises mercy petitions. Under Indian constitution there is provision for the criminals to file mercy petrition to the President of Indis.Therefore forgiveness is universally accepted act in any civilised society.But the problem comes when dealing with individual cases.Mentally man is prepared to forgive.But society encourages him to forgive for the main reason of co-existence.Suppose the concept of forgiveness is not there there is choas in this world. The nest question is to what extent forgiveness is appropriate and tolerable. It depends upon one's attitude and the nature of offence.Leave alone law how far forgiveness leaves good onsequences.Many who believe in taking vengence feel it does not. The present day violence in all parts of the world is due to the belief that forgiveness has no role to play in the world.All wars were fought only on this principle. But all religions preach forgiveness only. If only man is religious I think forgiveness need not need not be taught separately

Hi Wildflow, Welcome to Mylot! You don't just accept someone like that back into your life without a long and serious talk about what went wrong the first time around. It would not work. You would always be waiting for the same old hurts to happen again. I think you would have to tell this person how you feel and why. Trust has been broken. If you decide to give another chance then move slowly. Your friendship can not possibly pick up where it was before all the hurt. Also, it is possible to forgive someone without letting them into your life close enough to infect it again. For example, I forgave my ex-husband. I don't feel anger or bitterness toward him at all anymore. Still, enough happened between us that I don't want to be best buds with him either. It's like he is a person that I have no emotional attachment to. He is not my friend but he is not my enemy either.

For me be friendly to them again and no bad thing's happened is you both.

You really don't, although the relationship appears to be friendly that little voice speaks to you always that you can no longer have the same friendship as before.

In your situation, forgiving is a solution but not just as that. You two have to settle what you have come up with coz true and real friends need to value each and others' issues. Well, talk to her and settle your recent arguments. Ignoring the issue is not good.

I will ignore her up to the time she will realize her own fault. She should know how to adjust her pride in order gain other's trust again. make her understand what you want and let her learn.

Although someone who does not ask for forgiveness, we don't keep anything in our heart because that make our more tired and feel wretched. We let off the anyone mistake. We'll to feel happiness and this world is our.

I think you need to talk to her and explain nicely how you feel. If you don't get this issue resolved you will always resent her. And if she still doesnt apologize after you tell her how you feel then thats not a friend you want in your life. Good luck

I don't what to answer... u please let me know what u have answered her. I feel bad for you for your girl hurting you. However i hope u would understand her and forgive at least if u don't accept her back in your life....

If 'we' feel it's the right thing to do, then we accept the person who she is, whether she asks for forgiveness or not, if 'we' get along with her, need her, enjoy her and so on we shall accept her anyway, apology or not. Second, 'we' should probably first of all tell her about the situation and how we feel about it and maybe she'll change her mind or do something about it. You can't just expect somebody to read your minds.

Well, before I accept that person back, I'll tell him what he did to me that made me really mad. And that, he needs to apologize first, or else- there is no way, I'm taking him back in. After all the hurt he has put me through? No way!