Is there really a happily ever after ending like in a fairytale story?

@eyah04 (61)
Philippines
July 16, 2010 12:57pm CST
This span of time, I am discussing with my friend in facebook about his status... it states that, "One big problem with Disney films is that there's always a happy ending, which sets up unrealistic expectations for kids. Sometimes, life just doesn't afford us such luxuries." I started the discussion stated, that every child must experience that kind of dream "a happy ending life". In able to dream high and set a goal to fulfill that dream... he utters, no they always said, "and they lived happily ever after", which means there are no point in their life that they will experience sadness?! and then he gave example like the bananas and the monkeys, which he really knew at first, that monkeys can't really lived in a banana tree.."brain washing" he ended... BUT for me, he really talks about the "happily ever after ending" statements that brainwash little children... its not really bad to believe in a happy ending, right? it depends on that kid on how HE/SHE will interpret it and also with the help and guide of their parent. There is really a good path to that happy ending fairytale like... IS THERE REALLY A HAPPILY EVER AFTER ENDING?
1 response
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
I guess you have to take into consideration that happiness is not a goal but ALWAYS a conscious choice. Happiness is more of a path you can make and not an ending you take. Like in every hard times in your life, you can choose to find something beautiful in it rather than concentrate on the ugliness of the situation. In trying moments, you can choose to find a way out rather than be crippled with the hopelessness of the situation. There are many many things you can be grateful for but sometimes we tend to concentrate on a small number of disasters. Have a happy happy day my friend. :D