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More than likely you are right. I am the one pushing for a friendship here. I have decided to back off anyways. They are not worth my efforts any more. I have other neighbors who are across the street and believe it or not, I need friends. I think we all do and I have a husband who is an invalid and I guess I've made too much out of the neighbors next door. I tried. I can't do any more and you are probably very right, I've pushed too hard. I thank you for recognizing this ! later and thanks, quita

To tell you the truth Quita, those people don't deserve a friend like you. You're too good for them... Ignore them! Don't think about them... you've other good friends... Let that couple live their life as privately as they want... Take care...

Well, howdy stranger, I've missed you ! And, the neighbors are ok sometimes, but pains in the bu** others....... I have to take your advice and quit worrying about them. As I just told Hately, I have my Redneck friends across the street :) and they are great people and more than willing to share a late evening conversation under the stars and watch fireflies:) Thanks TIGER, quita

Okay, will do !!! I have to live here tho and ignoring is hard to do.........but I'm as a good of a snob as they are when I want to be LOL thanks guys and later, quita

I tell ya what ...I have decided to be the same quita today I was yesterday and be friendly. Their loss if they chose not to talk or interact. It's a matter of me wanting to be nice and feeling turned away. But, I have my neighbors across the street who are ok and we get along and I don't need the ones next door. I have my dogs and cats LOL oh ! and hubby too LOL So, they can go stick their heads in the sand LOL thanks Gabs :) quita

lololol thats ok ya got to it. he neighbors across the street be hard for them to be redneks lol They are SPanish but not from Mexico from Central America

DAng thought I answered this one. CHit LOL ah the heck with the neighbors. They are ok one minute and snobs the next. The people across the street are your and my kind of people, good old rednecks ! We just take the good with the bad............ hugsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

The way you describe it, it kind of sounds like your neighbors are only nice and friendly when it suits them, or when they don't think anyone is looking. Yeah I would definitely just keep on being friendly and if they say something they do and if not well then that's okay too. Good luck to you.

Ah, they are just stupid ! I am worth talking to LOL I can take them or leave them and guess I'll figure it all out or not....... Thanks for the way you think. I like it ! quita

haha no problem at all!

Ah? move out? take them to the police? and what for? for not talking............ I respect them and they apparently respect me enough NOT to talk to me, so I figure they are just jealous of me and the neighbors across the street. Like I say, their loss if they chose not to friendly.

Hi there, These neighbors have a reputation for not being sociable anyways but when I moved here I tried to talk and got blown off. I have always been a friendly person and made a special effort to get to know them. The man is not too bad...kinda of a smarty pants but good enough as neighbors go. The wife is ok but very quiet but we did start talking and I asked her to go walking with me in the evenings when she got off work and she said yes. I've not heard from her. So, even today they did talk to me some but I still feel a bit in the dark with them and all I ever wanted was to be friends. I guess that is asking too much . I am friends with the people across the street but he drinks a lot and my husband told him to stay away.....he doesn't tho. He and his wife both come over here and talk to me in this dining room where this puter is. I can see they are better people in the long run but still have to get along with the ones next door------or not I guess as you say give them some space and let things happen or not. Thanks for the post. quita