Do I still need to wait?
By jonnah91
@jonnah91 (63)
Philippines
July 16, 2010 8:09pm CST
I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because of misunderstanding and third party. After that, he and her girl best friend get closer with each other. It's painful every time I see them together. I don't feel jealous but I'm angry. I feel like, he never loved me the way he loves his best friend. I still love him but how can I go on if it's so obvious that he's happy with someone else. Is it worth it to still wait for someone like him?
4 responses
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
17 Jul 10
I know it's a hard thing to do, to be able to move on from this, but waiting for him isn't going to make you feel any happier is it?
I've been in a situation like this with my ex, we broke up, she started dating off another guy pretty much on the next day. And of course I think you know what's it like when someone you dated starts talking and bragging about their new boy/girl friend. It feels like a knife in the back.
But you know what, it's great to be single ;)
@med889 (5941)
•
28 Jul 10
I think he has showed you the way! He has found someone to keep him happy around and you must also do the same because you also deserves to be happy though, and I can understand that you still have some feelings towards him, this is obvious, I also had but when I went with friends to enjoy a movie or with my best friends, then gradually it helps to drives away from the past and enter a new future.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
It depends, if you still love him then try to win him back if he still deserves to be loved but if not then move on. You said that he and his best friend became closer after you broke up maybe simply because they are best friends so it's just normal that they are acting that way. If he is not doing anything to have you back and if you can sense that he don't like you anymore then that's the time that you have to look for your own happiness. Don't worry there are still a lot of fishes in the ocean, you deserved to be happy and not to be dumped by some stupid guy. Go girl!
@carisann (13)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
Aww. The answer is NO. I kinda been in that situation. And I understand what you're feeling right now. Cut the communication with him and don't bother checking what he is up to. I tell you, and believe me, you'll be able to move on. I'll take time to move on but I'm sure you'll be happy soon. Focus yourself on other things. And you'll see, without even noticing, you've already moved on for real! :) If he's happy now, then be happier that you won't end up with that kind of person. You deserve a better man!
I wish you all the best! You'll be able to move on... Believe me. :)
