if your love got married. what you will do?

It happened to me just recently. I broke up with my ex because of a wrong information and within two months he told me that he was getting married. That was really painful, I cried for a week and it was really hard to accept. We've been together for three years that's why it was not easy to accept. After the breakup, he socialized a lot and met a very aggressive older girl, who was so desperate to have a bf so she could get married and settle down. My ex was an easy prey, after almost two months of going out, he got her pregnant. I know about the whole story because my ex continued to communicate with me even after the breakup. There was nothing I could do but to just cry it out day and night. I also started dating, that helped a bit to ease the pain. I'm now in a new relationship and I just hope this one is for good.

in this case if your lover gets married than there is no op[tion left instead of forgeting it because after marriage now if you are trying to get her back than its near to impossible in a right manner and even you tried and you did not succeed than her life may be destroyed for ever and she has to adjust for the whole life with this truth so its better to live your lover and expect a better life for her and you also try to forget and start a new life. i agree that this is very tough but this is the only solution because your one step may destroy the other whole life so its better to handle yourself.

If I'm in that situation wherein i'm still not over my ex and knowing that he's getting married or got married already, then it would really make me feel worse than I ever did. I mean, if you can't still get over a break-up, there's still that longing, that hope that you can get back together again... but since the other is married already, it'll definitely hurt like hell. I just hope that in situations similar to this post, the one who's in the "happier position" or the one who's getting married will make the one who's hurting understand and maybe even help him/her to get over the break-up as early as possible.

aww god :( i would think that he never loved me. we were on a break and he just got married with someone else? how was that? or that girl was already after him while we were together or he found a girl fell for her and married instantly that way means he never loved me to fall in love for other so fast. i would be very sad would cry much and would be very angry with that guy

i will have to die :(

I guess it depended how old I was. If I was in my 20's probably devastated. At that age the world seems to come to an end when things like that happen. At 30 I would understand that life does go on and I should move on as well. Now that I am in my 40's I'd say "Good luck with the next one..." I am comfortable in being happy with myself and my kids. Life shouldn't be alone but if it came down to it then I'd have to keep busy in other things. All relationships have issues so I would really need to think about it.