Which do you think is better?

For me, I think it is the latter. I believe more of love going stronger and stronger everyday. A love that developed by time. I do not believe on love at first sight because you cannot really tell that when you meet at the first time, it is already love. We seldom misconceive and interchange love from attraction or like. When we first see someone, it is not actually love that we feel. It is attraction or mere like that we feel. The love comes after the like or the attraction. Love is more deep than the like. With my current bf now, perhaps people may say it is love at first sight when I tell them how we met. Though, for me, I did not consider it as love at first sight even when at the time we met, there is already a spark.

Sorry to burst your bubble but, there is no such thing as love as first sight. To even consider love at first sight as a feeling towards your partner means that you're not that in love. I'm not saying you're not, you probably just got the meaning wrong. You have been attracted to each other the first time you saw each other, but it's not love. It's just a deep attraction. It's normal. It's the foundation of your love but it's not love

Well as far as both are true and strong..both is good.

From my opinion,I can say that developed by time is better than love at first sight because the love which you have developed by spending more time will come to know each other characters and your relation will become stronger.....Hope you will choose right future partner........

I too feel developed one better and I even feel it last more than compare to the love at the first sight. Love gets developed by knowing and liking each other's behavior and personalities, but the first sight love tend to vanish if one does not like the personalities or behavior of other.

I think the love which developed by time is better than love at frist sight,the love at first sight will never last for long relation,because they will love only a while.The love which developed by time will last for long relation because they will get better love day by day..........

aww hushi^^ i wanted also a love at first sight huhu but you know that question i dont know it depends bcs some people sometimes say is love at first sight and then they see is a passion and it goes away. but if is really love at first sight is more romantic than the one developped with time bcs that means you saw that person and instantly felt he is the most important and that is so cute^^ anyway i wish you and him be together always^^ anyway how you met him?^^

I always believe that if things are meant to happen.... it will happen. Whether by "love at first sight" or "love developed through time"...... If you guys are for each other... you will end up loving each other. Everything happens for a reason.

I think both the first sight and developed feeling are better because its the first love when we gets attracted to the person and then it grows slowly in our heart and it gets develop for that person.Its like love doesn't develop in your heart unless you gets attracted to the person for the first time.

I agree disagree with first sight, because i didn't think that is love i think it just game and i agree developed feeling because i can know that the person is still love with me or not.The developed feeling is more comfortable than first sight why means i can know his behavior of him.

I will agree with the first point "love at first sight".As saying love is just a word until someone comes and gives a actual meaning of love.Its almost like a gift from a God,So in my opinion i would say to my love that i will be your favorite hello and a hardest Goodbye.

Love at first sight doesn't happen with most people. There can be liking, admiration, attraction etc. I would prefer developed feeling because it includes change and process of opening your heart for someone to make way into your life. The more you spend time with people, the more you will get to know each other and so your feelings would change and develope. It could be possible that the first sight eventually becomes a person in your life but that too needs a developed feeling.

Love at first sight doesn't happen with many people. There can be attraction, liking, admiration. I feel more comfortable with the developed feeling because, it's a process or a change that happens with one another. People meet and get to know each other. The more time they spend, the more they get connected. It may happen that the first sight of someone attracts you and eventually you get into relation but there also there is a developed feeling.

I would say developed by time is better. You have to really make sure the person is a good person that you want to be with. Meaning for me you have to be friends first and get to know each other. It really worked out for me ,because you will learn about a lot of things about certain boys and what they really want. I had a lot of they ask me out and just got mad because I said no! ^^; Uh, but my love for my husband developed over time. =)

I haven't experienced falling in love at first sight but I'm not closing my doors for I have seen and met couples who fell in love with their partners the first time they glanced upon each other. However, for me, knowing the type of person I am, I always believe that loving the person as you get to know him more and more is more mysterious and will ensure much strength of a relatinship over time.

I think the developed feeling is better. I have been in that kind of situation and I can really say that I feel comfortable about it. I knew the guy and have this kind of connection with him. We knew about anything and we share common interest. We have this compatibility and the love we had begun from just being friends.

what happened to me and my husband is somewhat like we developed but we find each other attractive.. hahahaha! i find my husband handsome.. but i like cute guys with baby face.. and he is not.. he is more serious, quite type. but i love his pointed nose, fair complexion skin and light brown eyes and he is so smart... but i fell in love with him when he do little things.. bringing me drinks and snacks when he knows ill be around. walking with me going to my car, wipe my spoon and fork, then we really have nice talks.. and more... i love my hubby even more.. :)

Well i think that love at first sight because i also fell love with my girl friend at a first sight. But now i don't feel any kind of love feeling anymore because i was recently dumped by my gf. Now i don't know what to do anymore as i feel that all my life has ended. SO sorry but i feel so. Nowadays i don't even talk to any girls much also. I just focus on my goal at hand and try to keep focused.