Do you believe that distance relationships can last?
By Skade24
@Skade24 (750)
Romania
July 18, 2010 10:32am CST
I have a distance relationship for 10 months now. I was wondering what do you think about distance relationships?
8 responses
@edorms36 (275)
• United Arab Emirates
18 Jul 10
Hi! I somehow do believe that distance relationship can be succesful if it is built on true love and trust. If you love the other person truly then you also trust him/her so doubts can't come between the two of you even when you're miles apart.
@babymc23 (153)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
Yeah, I might be on a long distance relationship in a few months time. It is kinda scary for me since I am used to seeing my boyfriend everyday. I also get paranoid at times but I agree that trust is on of the top things that can help greatly in any relationship whether long distance or not. I also agree to constant communication and commitment. I know of someone that is in a long distance relationship and they are still going strong after a few years. :)
@snowy22315 (180703)
• United States
18 Jul 10
I was in a long distance relationship for several months, but eventually we moved in together. I think at some point one or the other person has to move to continue the relationship. You can only be so connected online or on the telephone.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
18 Jul 10
Sweetie, 10 months should give you a answer already.
That trust, love and respect you have so far will make this work.
Patients is a virtue, but it can give you a hard time.
Just believe that it will work and you will be surprised what can happen if you believe.
To your happiness.
TATA.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
18 Jul 10
I had one in the past, and I am still with the same person many years afterwards, so I definitely think they can work, and my own relationship is proof they can. They require a lot of work though, so it is not always easy, but if you make it, the chances are good you will stay together for life!
@prbrittny (58)
• United States
19 Jul 10
i doubt they work , you have to really trust the person and wannna be them. you cant have a relationship if you cant trust someone espically a long distance one. if you believe somethings wrong then you might wanna let go from a boyfrend girlfriend relationship but if you still want that person there must be a reason you still want them in your life
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
1 May 11
I just happened to me to fall in love with a man who lived on another continent. We wrote letters first warm, you feel what is happening to us. Then we went to Hot Tuna and I ended up in the call desperate, urgent, unbearable. Of course I was the one who went to see him. For one who always wants more and more a love dares gestures employed. And he would come, but could not then ...
My story has many fabulous corners. I found that sometimes life is not the height of the letters. I do not like i was just fascinating life as in writing, or he was not nearly so desirable as much as I felt the distance. We promised to meet again soon, but the months are ongoing and new we were getting harder - meanwhile abolished and direct flight ...
Out of sight out of mind after other eye and loves to linger in turn in love. So in the meantime I really love, a living man, who lived near me, and who wanted and could be with me every day. Since then, I do not believe in love at a distance. I want to be with my love, for better or worse, sleep and wakefulness in the fall and in flight. I want to be all in all and all, I want him to see once again the beauty of the world to me, and I land a date with him sorrow, evil appear to him ... Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe breaking barriers, maybe destroying corolla wonders of love, but can not do otherwise. In my happiness formula, the distances are not looking.
@juryse (752)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
I know that there are some couples who make long distance relationship seem like a breeze. For them it's easy. It's a matter of trusting each other that both will not stray. Constant communication is also a key. I truly admire them. I seems like a lot of work compared to those who are together. Personally, I don't think I can be in hat kind of relationship. But who knows right?