Seriously? You forgot our anniversary?!
By akiadranem
@akiadranem (403)
Philippines
July 19, 2010 11:40am CST
I've been married for four years. And it happened to me just this year. I mean, i understand that he's busy with work and everything. But forgetting our anniversary? The day he married me?...
Does this really happen? Or just to me? :(
5 responses
@lokeshbakshi (7)
• India
27 Jul 10
It happens sometimes..but then it's a part of being married to someone you love and the bigger part is is forgive and forget.It's not that he doesn't love you , I'm sure he does but then working is a pain.
forgive him for forgetting :)
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I did. I wouldn't be with him still if I didn't forgive him. Thank you, lokeshbakshi. :)
@alienstar (5142)
• India
27 Jul 10
It's really sorry case as i can understand the feeling you might have gone through as that is the most important day of your life time and celebrating is too good but at least remembering is a must and i feel you should express your feeling towards him regarding this.But i feel he must be really tensed on some office matters or anything else to forget a day like this.Having said this, there are also people who never remember any important day of their life as they feel it is silly.Has he remembered on previous occasions?
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I guess I should be more understanding. He's really busy with work and sometimes he even helps me with the kids. I know he loves me, but I was just feeling a bit low that he forgot our anniversary, as i felt it was a special day for me. But I really should be more forgiving, as I do know that he even forgets his own birthday sometimes. :P
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Dec 10
Hurt is part of love, so dear ones mostly hurt each other where i feel thats not a pain of hurt, but a part of love.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Jul 10
It depends what time of the day it happened. It could be that he was planning for a surprise by evening. like i did...i wanted to surprise by wife with a party....but by then she was out of the house...and the surprise ended in a blunder.
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
Too bad for your surprise. But you see, he just forgot. no surprises, nothing at all. I went to bed, depressed and didn't talk to him til the day after. :(
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Hmm, did he forgot because he has lots of his mind maybe??
I think women as wife need to remind them. There's no reason why wife are always to just wait until their husband to remember.
Women are at fault on this , always expect that the man should remember. REMEMBER it is not just your husband anniversary, but also yours. You would not be celebrating if it was not for him as well.
If he tells you he loves you each day, who cares if he forgot, does not mean he cares less about you .
