Stupid AOL

@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
July 19, 2010 12:57pm CST
I don't know about this stupid AOL. I have gotten two "undeliverable" messages from people's e-mail addresses that were perfectly good e-mail addresses. Both times it happened after we had a few conversations about AOL reading your e-mail and causing trouble when they don't like what they see. I had posted last week about my mail being temporarily unavailable. And it's happening a lot more often lately. Time to switch to Yahoo, Hotmail or Gmail? Darn it, everybody has had that AOL address for years and years and years, I have things saved there, I have all my contacts, I hate change, I like to whine.... Couple of people on here have come by and said things about AOL that weren't very complimentary. So, should I pull up stakes and take my business elsewhere?
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27 responses
• United States
19 Jul 10
Hey, D! I've been having all sorts of computer problems lately, and one of the worst is that AOL seems to want to deliver only the mail they like. I've switched several people to a hotmail account, but I think I'll keep the AOL one because, like you, so many people have had it for so many years!
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• United States
19 Jul 10
If only they cared, we wouldn't be having these problems!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
They've gotten too big, methinks...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I'm switching my friends and family over to yahoo and keeping the spam on AOL. That'll teach 'em.
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• United States
19 Jul 10
I still use my AOL account, but I no longer pay for it. I have had a few issues like you describe as well. I also have e-mail addresses at Yahoo and G-mail, plus all the assorted e-mail addresses that come with my web pages. AOL is my main e-mail that I have had the longest so I have had a hard time trying to part with it, but if for some reason I can't send an e-mail through AOL, I can always use one of my other accounts.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I can use any of my other accounts to send mail too, but if I can't get to AOL, I can't: 1. read incoming mail 2. get at my address book Annoying...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I get a lot of spam on gmail, but it always seems to go into the right folder.
• United States
19 Jul 10
Yes, very annoying. The address book thing is one of the reasons I have not dumped my AOL account, that and the 10 years of saved mail, that I probably don't need, but it is nice to have it saved there anyway. Most of my incoming mail now goes through an e-mail address attached to one of my web sites and then forwards to my aol account, so if for some reason I can not get into AOL to read these mails, I can always see these messages in my web office (it is just not as convenient). Over the last couple years I have been changing the e-mail address on my business cards and marketing material to a G-Mail address. I seem to get a LOT less spam at G-mail than I do at AOL and Yahoo.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
23 Jul 10
A change is as good as a holiday. It's time to let go. It's time to move on. Think of it...a lovely fresh page, a new start, a new outlook. Worry not. Be excited.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Jul 10
I rather felt like bursting into song myself after I saw what I wrote...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jul 10
I shall do a little dance before I go home for the weekend! :D
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jul 10
I like that :D
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
19 Jul 10
I have another friends that is having the same issues..and she is going to gmail...I have been with hotmail since I got a computer and never had a problem with them....I also don't like doing the change! LOL
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I think I'll use the AOL account for all my spam and use Yahoo for personal mail.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I do use Gmail, but for now I"m going to send people the Yahoo address. I get notified when I have mail because I use Yahoo Messenger.
• India
19 Jul 10
Why not use gmail? its a great service... I have been using it for quiet some time. You can add pop forwarding to your aol account or vice versa. It would save you from changing emails from all the other services u might have registered with.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
19 Jul 10
I gave a long response but it went to computer heaven. My boss ordered me to change internet service and for 5 days I have not been able to send an email at work.Spent countless hours talking to tech support and doing everything that they asked for but it does not work. Am so cross as if something works then why change it? I too hate change but perhaps it would be best for you to have another account.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I sent you an e-mail from my yahoo account a while back. I think I'm going to slowly transition people over there for now, clean up the AOL and then see what I want to do... Maybe I"ll leave the spam there. :D
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
Are you serious?
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
19 Jul 10
Received it and responded and it has just been returned saying that you are not a valid user
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• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
change it up to Gmail dear... not promoting the 'G' guys or anything, but get it done this one time and switch your email to it, and a lot more internet stuff can be so much more better
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
For now I'm going to use the Yahoo address...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
Now see, you couldn't have done that if I had chosen one of the other two...
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
Yahoo....!
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
19 Jul 10
I would pull up the stakes..save everything you can..and high tail it out of there..My sister had AOL for a time..and I did too..a long time ago..I didn't keep it long though...I like Yahoo..but then..people have issues what that too..so I don't know..I do hope you find a place to park your tent and stay awhile..
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
19 Jul 10
may just fix the issue u having..
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I know a fair number of people who have had their Yahoo or Hotmail accts hacked, but I figure if I keep my personal stuff on Yahoo and all my other crap on AOL, maybe that won't be an issue.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 10
I have never liked AOL it is nothing but trouble Also I can't send some of my Friends Emails on AOL they bounce back to me I have Gmail and have had it for 4 years now I love it
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Aug 10
I did have trouble with stuff bouncing back, and then it stopped bouncing. Weird...
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
23 Sep 10
this is 3 mths old discussion but I am wondering about AOL and AIM I have a friend I used to send and receive emails with but out of the sudden I received spams from her I don't believe she sends it, but then again I can't contact her at all she can send me emails but any email I sent her bounced does this sound familiar to you ? how do you fix it? I read the webmaster email also bounced, so I guess I won't be able to contact her at all
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Sep 10
I have no idea. This problem just fixed itself...
• United States
20 Jul 10
my ex used to monitor for them.and oh yea,he was reading people's stuff. i can't say they encouraged it,but none the less he was. if you have the full version and leave,i would recommend you wipe your HD and reinstall your stuff.even when you cancel it there's a buttload of stuff that remains in your system eating up space.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
What was he looking for? A cheap source of Cialis? Not sure, but I don't think I have their software on my new PC. I get to my AOL mail via the web version.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
They can't think outside the script.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
20 Jul 10
dawnald, Change if you like and I highly recommend Gmail for it's extensiveness in their apps and security enhancements. However, you may want to keep your AOL account for a while and mail forward whatever is coming in to your new email account and address. In this way, you will be sure of a thorough switch over which could include people who had your previous address but not sent you an email till after you have decided to switch. Have a nice day.
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• Singapore
21 Jul 10
dawnald, It is really your call here as I am just stating my experience with Gmail where their SPAM control is found to be impressive compared to Hotmail and Yahoo.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
At the moment I'm using the Yahoo (pilot program lol), but I can always switch to the gmail...
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
19 Jul 10
AO-Hell!! Yeah, I used to have that forever ago.. it was my original internet provider, until hubby got me hooked on Road Runner.. but I still kept AOL for certain things.. including the messenger. Then he and I both learned that AOL is actually spyware in and of itself, and it slowly destroys your computer. My foster mom had nothing but AOL on her puter and after awhile it totally froze her up and her comp worked like crap.. hubby (who is as darn near a computer geek as you can get without taking classes for it) could not figure out how to fix it.. couldn't restore it, couldn't remove anything from it, not even simple pictures... the whole thing was fried. She had to replace her computer and it wasn't even that old... hubby called up his other computer geek friend, who did actually go to school to become a computer geek and after a few questions to see if it was a virus, he asked what provider she used, we said AOL.. he said "Well, that's your problem". After I discovered that I came home and tried to delete every AOL file on my computer, and guess what? It wouldn't let me.. I couldn't delete a single one of them. We restored my computer but the AOL crud was still on there somehow.. just no longer showing up in the files.. but it was still somehow embedded deep into the motherboard so my computer never worked right again. I replaced it.. but it was getting old anyways, and since then I've never put any AOL anything on my computer.. and never had a problem since.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
far as I know, I don't have their software installed on any of my machines, I use their webmail version, but just recently it's started to give me all kinds of hell...
• United States
19 Jul 10
Yeah.. I don't trust them for nothing anymore.. I was even reluctant to add my AIM name to my Trillian when I installed it.. even though it's not AOL software.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Jul 10
Well, when my family changed over from having a dial up modem to cable modem, that was the point that I pulled up the stakes and quit using my AOL account. Yes, it was difficult initially to transfer all of my contacts into my new email address, but in the long run I think it is much better because I feel like my email service is much more dependable. I seldom have messages that aren't able to be delivered, and I feel like they transfer a lot quicker as well.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
I haven't really had issues with mail not being delivered until recently, but I have been running into a lot of "mailbox unavailable" type stuff lately.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
19 Jul 10
Well after the whining and hating changes. Change it and get it over with. How hard can it be? TATA.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
I have to go and clean up all my saved mail, decide what I want to keep and where I want to keep it. I have to get my address book, at least the addresses I want to keep, and there are a LOT of them. And I have to notify people. That's how hard. :D
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Jul 10
And change my address on all my websites, including paypal.... Oyyyy.....
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Can't you have both? Say AOL and gmail, or AOL and Yahoo, or hell, why not just have one of each? That way, if one (or more) doesn't work you can always have a back up email addy ready to go!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
I have all of the above and hotmail too! It's just a question of which one becomes my "main" e-mail.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Hi dawny! There definitely is something going on with AOL mail! All of a sudden AOL isn't "allowing" people to get their mail. It gives out a message saying "that the mail is unavailable at this time"! WTF? I have 51 emails that I can't get to? And it isn't just me and it is happening for a few weeks now and it is happening more frequently an is very annoying! But, I have had more issues with Yahoo mail than I have ever had with AOL mail so wouldn't recommend that particular switch! Yahoo mail is even more full of errors and not being able to access mail more ofter than AOL and I have all my mylot mail going to Yahoo so I spend alot of time "waiting for access"! Choose at your own risk!
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 Jul 10
I have a Gmail account and I have no complaints. My personal email for friends and family is in Outlook and my ‘other’ emails come through my Gmail. I have never used AOL. It is tough to change email addresses, it’s a bit like changing your phone number, a hassle but it may be worth it if you’re having a lot of problems.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
yeah, I will probably slowly start notifying friends, but I'll keep everything else on AOL...
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@LeeHolt (433)
20 Jul 10
I would definatly reccomend GMail, used them for many years! Simple interface with little clogging up the space on your screen, and there is plenty of space for you to store things. Right now I have 7478MB but it's constantly going up! I've never heard that AOL read peoples emails, but I've never really liked AOL. Surely this is illegal? Lee.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
One would think, but apparently not...
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
21 Jul 10
My very first email was a Hotmail. I've never had problems with it. Gmail is also good, but lately I've heard some similar issues with what you're going through. Yep! I believe you should take your business elsewhere. Although I don't envy your task ahead of moving your earning links to whatever service you would eventually choose. Goodluck!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
I think I will keep that stuff with AOL and only move the personal stuff. That's the stuff that frustrates me when I can't get to it.
• United States
20 Jul 10
Change is not always necessarily a good thing, but sometimes we have to adapt to changes no matter what. I would say since it is getting worse and worse I would go ahead and change and by the way when you do yahoo and or other ISP providers allow you to drive your contacts over with you. Or what you can do is start an a free email account with on of the providers, slowly get everyone over to your new email address then be rid of AOL. That's probably what I would do, since the free one will be with you for ever and by the way if you go with the paid for instance yahoo, you know you can keep the free in the same account.. Hope this helps.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
Yep I moved my contacts (the ones I care to keep) over to Yahoo. We'll see how it goes.