Have you ever been cheated on??

@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
July 19, 2010 7:42pm CST
Well I want to know who here has been cheated on and how did you find out. I have personally never been cheated on and if I do I would be furious and lose control. Still anybody here been cheated on??? Share your story.
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9 responses
• Portugal
20 Jul 10
i wasnt cheated on but a friend of mine was and he never been with any more girl after it. also he is always in street fights and never flirts with girls. only girl he seems to like is me he says he loves me and even when i said come meet my friends he said no im rude. is like he doesnt want to be much trusting in people. he always says he solves his own problems. and i think thats all bcs of what that girl did. he loved her and she cheated on him. he never cheated on her also when i asked you dont kiss girls? and he said why will i kiss if she isnt my gf? he is a very sweet guy and i always act sweet with him bcs i really feel he is not ok since she did that. so i will always be beside him to support him^^ sorry for all those that said they have been cheated :(
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Aww that's really sad that your friend has been cheated on and the worst of it all is that he no longer trusts people. I'm glad that you will always be there to support him.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I found out that he was cheating on me when he no longer communicates with me. My friend who happens to be his friend told me that he has another girlfriend and it's very painful.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Aww I'm really sorry to hear that he did that to you. Still I hope that you will not let him keep you down for long and that you find yourself a man that will be loyal to you.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I have been cheated on by my third boyfriend. I didnt know he was already cheating on me and when I found out about it, it was not a surprise anymore cause I was kind of expecting him to do that which means that I really didnt trust him 100%. I was upset about that too but I recovered from it quite fast actually.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
I'm really glad that you recovered from it quickly and didn't let it bother you. That shows that you are strong wait to go.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
Yes, I have. I have been cheated on twice. The first was with my first real boyfriend. Real because he was the only guy whom i was often hanging out/dating with. I should have listened to her previous girlfriends who said that he changes girlfriends every 2 months. Well, indeed he was loyal to yo his mission. After about 2 months, I never saw him and he never texted so I broke up with him through text, which he didn't reply on. About 2 weeks after, my cousin told me that she saw him with another girl.The second was with the most handsome bf I ever had. He didn't only two-time us but we were many. He was very adulterous. tsk tsk.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
It is always best to listen to the ex girlfriends because they know a lot about that boy still I guess we sometimes feel like not listening to them because we think that they are just jealous or something which is also true at times. The second boyfriend two timed you wow he is a jerk for doing that to you it really is a shame.
@labea17 (443)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I have been cheated on by my last boyfriend about 3 years ago, and I have learned my lesson ever since. Well, I was in college then and I met this wonderful guy. I was instantly attracted to him and after a month or so, we got together. I thought it was for real because we spent all of our waking time together and it never occurred to me that he also has another girlfriend. I mean, we are always together so how can he squeeze in another relationship? It was very sad because I found out that I was the second girlfriend and more of like a mistress. Lol. But I have learned from that mistake already and I have realized that it is still best if you get to know the person long before plunging into a relationship.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
That's really sad I guess your right it's always good to get to know someone before getting serious. We learn from our mistakes.
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
yes, ive been cheated by my first boy friend.How did i find out? My instinct says it.Also, i felt a few changes from him like hes not as sweet as he used to.And he makes excuses in whenever i ask for his company. Later on, i found out that he is courting another girl. Im so hurt but on the other hand im thankful also coz i knew his true color and he doesnt desert my love for him.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Your first boyfriend oh no, ah instinct yes our instinct can be very right at times. It's a gift that we received. He did not deserve you at all.
• United States
20 Jul 10
I have been cheated on and actually, I walked i on him. To b honest, I had a feeling so it didn't really surprise me. I was so pissed off but went about packing my things while she sat there looking shocked. All I told her was that if he cheated on me, he' probably going to cheat on her too and I'm better off without him.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Oh I'm sorry to heart that and to walk in to find out like that is the worst way. I'm really sorry, but you did the right thing.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
I have been cheated on, and my ex told me all about it a couple of years later. LOL. Anyway, I mean, it was way over when I knew and I totally have gotten over him, but I was still angry, I did not curse or anything, but I think I asked him why, and I don't think I ever got a straight answer. Anyway, that's life I guess, and that was way back in high school so it's really nothing serious. And I should add that my ex and I are still on good terms. Hehehehe.
• United States
20 Jul 10
Hey, Yes I have been cheated on. There was this guy that wanted to date me for a long time and after I finally agreed to start dating him he tells me half way into the relationship that he is seeing someone else. The signs were there from his constant texting around me and the conflicting stories he would tell when asked where he had been. Carmen
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Wow how ungrateful can he get he wanted to date you for so long and he cheats on you wow he is messed up to do such a thing to you.