I hate people who renege

"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you." it's a qoute by Maya Angelou. I should express my gratitude to you for letting me share it, for I now feel some relief. Truth is, I never even wished for a laptop until the day my dad gave me the dream. But always look at the brighter side of things; it's that spirit that helped me get a scholarship! -Ajith.

O no problem and no need to thank me. I am here whenever you need to talk! And yes, you're absolutely right. Everything happens for a reason. And that happening may have been just the push you needed in the right direction!!

Awww wow... that sucks. It really is hurtful when someone close to you reneges.. especially when you trust them so much. That was wrong and I can imagine how you must've felt. I bet that since then you really either haven't asked him much for anything... or don't believe when he say he's going to do something. That's what reneging does to those people... it damages the validity of what they're saying... making everything seem unreal. Thanks for sharing your views!!

If that person didnt keep his/her promise and forgot to do as promised then will you also do the same with that person as you have said Give respect in order to earn respect. But in this case you will renege on that person in order to take revenge, which in my case is not possible. I can't do uch thing purposely with anyone. This is like you remember but still you will pretend that you forgot and disappoint that person. Will you do this?

Well, usually... after a person has reneged on me.. I don't hold anything that they say as credible. Dependent on the extent of what they lied over, I may still remain cordial with them. I don't do things in spite, no. But it is bogus for people to not be in your corner and then expect you to be in theirs when they need you. If I am still cool with the person, then I will be there regardless. But, I don't tolerate TOO much so therefore if they have done that to me several times, I'm not sure whether I'd still be cool with that person. Good point, though!! Thanks for commenting!!

You're right. I feel like honesty is the best policy, though. Some people make promises that they TRULY have NO intention on keeping and then forget about five minutes later about the entire ordeal. Those people make it hard for you to be there for THEM in THEIR corner when they ask you something or want you to do something for them. You have to give respect to earn respect... true true! Thanks for sharing your views!!

Hear hear!! Thanks for commenting!!

Yes, that is very well true. But they fail to realize that karma is TRUE. Things that you do wrong to others does come back on you, not necessarily in the same way... could be not as bad or worse. It is important that you watch how you treat people! Thanks for commenting!!

Some people are just like that. Some people really can't help it or they aren't willing to change. Autism is not a disability... I know a lot of autistic people who are actually smarter than other people I speak with everyday. Autism (in my opinion) is merely focusing on a few things that one does BEST... rather than focusing on doing everything... averagely. As with compulsive liars, they lie so much that they actually start believing what they are saying and will deny you down if you say that they are being untruthful. Until those people are willing to change, we can either make 1 of 2 decisions. We can either decide to stick around and see whether they will make that transition or we can go on with our lives. In the instance with your child, all we can do is guide our children in the right direction and lead them to the good aspects of life where we want them to be. But, once they become grown... we have to wash our hands of the situation... be there for them when they need us, yet let them live their lives! Thanks for sharing your views!!

I concur!! A person is only as good as their word. And if their word is meaningless, in my opinion, so are they! Thanks for sharing your views!!

Yes it is pronounced "renig".. that's what I almost typed LOL but I was like.. let me spell it correctly... people might not know my slang. But I agree.. it can be quite hurtful. I try not to say things I don't mean and try to always keep my promises if I can help it! Thanks for commenting!!

You're right... some people are forgetful... some people have emergencies or things that come up... and others are just downright neglectful of other people's time, consideration and feelings. That's why I never expect anything from anyone.. even if they swear up and down that they are going to do it. Life's lessons are best learned at a young age! Thanks for sharing your views!!

Yea, it's like it's the "thing" to do nowadays. And just as you said, some of these people I tend to cut off... while others I just don't expect anything from them and feed them with a long-handled spoon in that aspect. Reneging definitely is NOT cool!! Thanks for commenting!!

I concur wholeheartedly. A person that doesn't keep their word is not only unreliable and not worth trusting... but also not someone that you'd respect right off hand. The respect level dwindles for people who say what they don't mean. Strong lesson learned. Thanks for commenting!!

Uhh no... you are completely misinformed and didn't interpret what I said very... well. Anywho I have time to explain again. Reneging..... isn't necessarily comparable in relationships... because too much reneging in ANY relationship will contribute to the beginning of its ending. I would never be with a guy that reneged on saying that he loved me... that's bogus and stupid. I would hope that you or anyone else would feel the same way. And just because one person reneges, doesn't mean that everyone does the same.. so I don't hold that against OTHER people... just the ONE person that did it. And I let them know that it either bothered me or hurt me in some way... so that they will either NEVER do it again or get the eff on with their lives because they are wasting mine with their senseless and useless lies. I don't know about you, but I don't have time for those types of people in my life. Reneging doesn't always mean in relation to a relationship... but sometimes it can be people in your family, people you go to school with, people you work with, acquaintances... the list goes on. It's just up to you whether you want those people in YOUR life. Hope this clarifies what you seem to have misunderstood. Thanks for your comment!!