Is love learn or a natural impulses?

IT's a natural thing for sure Love is just a kind of special feeling that hits on us, regardless of we expected it or not.. BUt it's gonna be very rare, in order for two to meet each order.. MOst of the time, it's only a one-sided affair, and thus we see, no matter how much a gal/guy put in for the other party, but the other party never seem to appreciate it at all.. haha =D And that will be the learnign part of love.. IF he/she is not into us, no matter waht we do, it's gonna be useless.. haha

I can't see how Love is learned. It may not be a sudden impulse like a first love or one that takes a lifetime to develop if there is. That simply explains that it is a natural impulse. What about it when someone says that you can learn to love such as happened in an arranged marriage. I think you either make it or you break it. If you make it, it's the love not learned but developed after the marriage. It's still a natural impulse.

Love is a feeling and I don’t believe you ‘learn’ an emotion, therefore I think love is a natural response. Having said that I do think that to keep a life long relationship strong requires hard work and the art of compromising, sharing, communication etc are traits that can certainly be learned.

Nice query, During my high school years i used to believed that love is a natural impulses. During that time I've got a lot of crushes, that whenever i see one of them i had this unexplainable happiness, which i would thought that i am in love. But later on i was just infatuated. As i grow up and mature i discover that love is a learning process it is not just emotion, because the real love is something that is unconditional and stable. In conclusion love is learn not just a natural impulses because when you love it's an act that you have to so to show to someone that you care even if he doesn't seem to response.

Love is a powerful emotion. It is not something that should have to be learned. Love should come naturally. If love needs to be learned, it may not be a true feeling. Just follow your heart. It will show you right path to love.

love is discrete and wide. I mostly agreed that love is a natural impulse. it strikes when we not notice of it at all. confusing yet pleasing. love comes in various way and leave in every way it desires.

Feeling it is natural, keeping a relationship alive is learned.

It's an emotion that comes naturally, yet there is a lot that can be learned. What may seem like love at first will often reveal it's self to be a strong feeling of lust later on.I used to confuse the two all of the time when I was younger. Plus, love is a two way street. It can't work if it's only going in one direction. Unacquainted love for another person is quite agonizing. You have to learn that it's no possible to trick/make them feel the same way about you, as you do about them.

For me love is a long way process. two people need to undergo lot of trials learning to know each other better. Judging a person being in love at an instant is like love at first sight. Love is effective when it involves interaction between two people.

it is learn the most i guess and impulses i do it when i become attracted to the person. because of his image, personality or status. love requires time and observation before two get close.

Hi! Well, love is really something we cant understand sometimes. For me love happens in very unexpected places and circumstances. The man you met in your work, in occasions you attend or family gatherings maybe the man of your dreams. But i believe that there is always a different feeling which maybe a sign that you will fall in love with this person the moment you see him. I Think there is an aura that is elicited between you or an attraction that is brought about by you and him meeting each other. This is some sort of a connection between you that keeps you bonded so that when you dont see this person you got miss him. And since you want to see each other often a relationship is formed. I also believe in destiny, because if you are really meant for each other, no matter what the hindrances are, you will still end up with each other. An that is the connection or link i am talking about. I hope i am right.

I think it's a combination of both; you follow impulses in relationships, but you learn which are appropriate as you go.

Definately natural impulse sweetie. We cannot decide or choose who we want to love. Love works on its own terms and i have learned not to argue with that. TATA.

I believe it can be both, depending on the person. For me, I fall in love slowly over a long period of time, this is because I have my guard up for everyone, I tell myself not to trust anyone without knowing for sure.. My boyfriend actually had the natural impulse though, that's why I believe in love at first site. I was at the mall one day and we kind of caught eachother's eye as we walked by.. He ended up talking to me after and we're together now. Some people may not believe its really LOVE at that stage, but it was something different. I found out this guy has been a big player for a long time and never stuck with the same girl for over a week. Never even talked to his girls really.. From the day I met him he kept going on about how he felt different since he met me, i thought it was the usual bs guys say to be nice, but now I've been with him for months.. He never partied or went to a club or bar again. His friends keep asking me what I did to change him. I have no idea. Anyway, love can be a natural impulse. I don't know how, but I guess thats something you have to experience before believing it.

Love is a feeling that develops in the right time. But we can't say in the right person or in a right place. Natural impulses fades. When we see someone and we felt that urgency and non stop pounding of our heart, that is not really love, but attraction and if you never stop thinking about him, that is infatuation. For me love never fades. or True love never fades. and love grow maturely. For how many times that I am infatuated with someone and I declared I was in love, but that is not true, I am just infatuated or attracted. And most of all love is shared by two people, you can fall in love with your friend because you have interaction or communication, but falling in love with someone who doesn't know you existed, for me is not falling in love but infatuation.