How should I do with the boy I love best?

China
July 20, 2010 10:16am CST
I really don't know what to do.I love him when I was in primary school.He is a outstanding student and a good monitor.At that time,I,to some degree,can be treated as his assistant.Besides,we are good friends,running,dining,working,learning together. Now,after years of losing connection,He got a new girlfriend.But I still love him,should I take some action to pursue my love?
2 responses
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
20 Jul 10
You must meet him again, and see how is he, keep on going out with him, to find out details about his love life, to see how much he cares about the girl that he has next to him, and maybe if its a free path, you can intervene, to talk with him, and you have to tell him what you feel, maybe he feels the same, but he thinks that you see him just as a friend.
• China
23 Jul 10
Yeah,you are right!But the problem is that we are learning at different universities in different cities.Sometimes I will give him a call,and he seems willing to chat with me.In fact,he had told me that he can not keep a good relationship with his girlfriend.Does that mean something special?
• China
24 Jul 10
Oh,that's really cool!Thank you so much!I'll make a try for love.
• Belgium
23 Jul 10
if he told you that he can not keep good relationship with that girl i think you have to make a step towards him,and short the distance between both of you,invite him to came to you,or tell him that you have a friend in his city and that you will be there next weekend and if hi wants maybe you could meet him for a coffee or to watch a movie,walk at the park or anything else,but remember don't behave yourself like you are crazy about him.Tell him that you are glad to seem him and you are missing your good friend !!
• Belgium
20 Jul 10
If you really want this just make a try and then you will see what will happen :) overwhelm your fears ask him does hi have feelings about you talk with him if you know where he lives!! Good luck
• China
23 Jul 10
Thank you so much!your words gave me a lot of courage,I will make a try!