Why do men prefer Exotic women?

July 20, 2010 11:35am CST
When i see exotic women, I mean women who exploit themselves for attention. I have noticed a number of men who do this. I used to think that it was a beauty thing, but it is not. It is like they are more drawn to women who have on less clothing and more makeup. I do believe that women can be beautiful with their clothing on. Men just seem to look right over the natural beauty. They seem to love to go for the fake eyelashes, hair, and plastic surgeon looking women. Why is this? Any ides?
8 responses
@megabiz (185)
• United States
20 Jul 10
I totally understand your point. Men looking at women like that get on my nerves! I have a guy friend that comes over to shower and eat at my place. He has no water at his home due to plumbing problems and not able to pay for it. He uses my computer. We have a great friendship and love each other tho we are not dating. But he has to get on the computer when he eats breakfast to look at dating sites that have nothing but Russian women, Ukraine women and China women. I see how the Russian and Ukraine women dress. If you ask me, they look like hookers. Some are topless even though the cover with there hands. The where skimpy skirts, high heels, and spread there legs. I told my guy friend the other day, "You are so addictive to these sights as it is the only thing you look at on the computer." He tells me, "I am not addictive to these women." My guy friend is a Psychotherapist. Yes, he does admit that they are beautiful, but that he could care less about what they are wearing as that does not matter to him. (Like I'm going to believe that.) He says that he looks at there profile for the smart ones that may know some English and have the same interest in things as him as well as having to have some kind of degree. He is not a paying member, so he can not write to them. Yet he saves the profiles of the ones he is interested in for a latter date when he decides he might want to start contacting some of them through paying member. I told my friend, "if your not addictive, then why do you look at them every free moment you have to be on the computer?" He tell me, "it's just relaxing. It's you I may be getting interested in." Okay! If he is getting interested in me, why look at these women? He tells me that women in these countries don't make enough to get plastic surgery or implants to make them look bigger. I believe that married men sneak a peek at these kinds of women too. It's the next best thing that is closes to looking at naked women without putting a virus on the computer. In my opinion, if women like you and me dress fully covered from head to toe, are not good of for those who look at exotic women, then why are they marrying us or dating us? Do they think of the sexy women on the internet when making love to us? The whole thing is crazy. I could not sit here and look at men on the computer every day when I'd have a sexy man in the same room with me. That is just wrong. Also, just like this guy does, men should not sit on the computer looking at exotic women while telling you (like this guy tells me), "Your sexy." Makes me think, Yea right? No I'm not. If a man can't be true to you and only you without staying away form the exotic women, then I say, he isn't good enough for you.
20 Jul 10
Thank you. I really needed that. I actually have a boyfriend like that. It is like they are stuck in this nonexistent world. They think that a woman is supposed 2 have on makeup 24/7 and dress up. Even the exotic women do not do that, but they tend to stay barely clothed 24/7.
• Brazil
20 Jul 10
I'm not sure about Russians, but the 24/7 norm of being barely clothed could be due to habits formed growing up in a place that is HOT. I LOVE my baggy clothing and t-shirts that I grew up in due to US weather and feel uncomfortable in tight fitting clothing but DAMN sometimes I suffer now that I live in Brazil and the weather is killer. I just have a hard time transitioning into the local wear because I was never that constricted growing up.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 10
That is true Hoshi. I mostly dress in a tank top and shorts. Indonesia is always hot, between 34 - 37C everyday. Of course, I would dress decently going to the office and to formal events. Still, some people said I am exotic.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Well, I am a man, but I don't match what you just described. I don't like too much makeup as matter of fact. But less clothing, I honestly just like every average men out there. But I do love natural beauty. That is the real beauty to stand out of all the fake, artificial beauties. That is me.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Beauty should be natural. I agree with you but sometimes we also have to consider that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We have different views of how beauty should be seen.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Most of the men prefer exotic women only for themselves to be happy outside. They will not go for serious relationship and this is the sad things that i know to them. But some other men do not like them and other are preferred those exotic women for themselves but time comes that they got inlove to them. So this gives to women dignity and pride at the same time. This is what i know about this matter. Have a nice day!
@Satenik (102)
• Armenia
21 Jul 10
Let me disagree with you about men being fond of a lot of make up. I am sure when they see a woman with a lot of make up on, the first thing they think is "how will she look in the morning". Men do like natural beauty but it is normal that they also like little clothing. Imagine yourself being a man and not paying attention to exotic women.
• Malaysia
21 Jul 10
each men have their own definition of exotic. some will say it's on the looks, and some might say it's on the personality. as for me, as long as the woman is good enough for me on looks and personality, I am interested to go on further with her. some might say I sound like a picky person, but that's the true fact.
@AutumnGold (1056)
21 Jul 10
Hello Charym. I see your point, a lot of men do like women in less clothes and more makeup, the superficial values seem to come first. On the other hand a lot of men like women to be less revealing, they like us to leave more to the imagination. I think as far as tastes go it probely evens itself out, we all like different things but when you think about it most men probably like the everyday type of woman, not the glamorous, self obsessed type.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Men are natural lover of beauty, be it fake or real, as long as it is pleasing to the eye. I think all of us are lovers of beauty, real or not. Men would often say, they are just admiring what they see but when it comes to getting really serious with them, they are doubtful.One a_ _ _ _le friend of mine used to tell me that these kind of women are like appetizers when it comes to getting laid with those fake boobs and all . But,if they are looking for a wife,the inner and natural beauty still counts.:-) Men are always like boys.:-)
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
I think the main reason for this is that having a woman like this by their side, is a sense of security for them. They are more proud of going out with a woman who looks like this but I wonder if they ever want to get married to a woman like that. I have plenty of boyfriends and they told me that they like looking at women like that that but they dont want to end up with them because these type of women are those who belong to the cannot be trusted type.