How Much Figure Attracts Your Boy Friend?
By manasi1327
@manasi1327 (47)
India
July 20, 2010 6:49pm CST
Everyone wants a good, slim figured girl friend. But it always doesn't happen. A girl can love who has a heavy weight can also love her boy friend the best. Or sometimes it seems that in the beginning of the relation the girl was slim enough but slowly she puts on some extra weight. So my question is whether her boy friend will loose attraction due to her fattiness or he will love him as usual? If he leave his girl friend then whether he had true feelings for her or not? And do you change yourself to get his love or stay as you are? If you see that your boyfriend is getting bored for this reason how would you try to impress him or bring his attention towards you?
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9 responses
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
13 Aug 10
No age and looks bar for love. Love do happen with no reason. If people go for figure of girl then there is some thing wrong in that guys love. May be he is trying to flirt with that particular person.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
21 Jul 10
It is normal for women as well as men to gain weight, but that should not create problem in love or relationship..
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always. 
Cheers.
Professor
Cheers.
Professor
@abhi000 (235)
• India
23 Jul 10
I ill maintain my figure by going exercise and having a balance diet in my daily meals.
@jalishamccoy (76)
• United States
23 Jul 10
My husband never did like big girls, or girls who had a larger figure! It's only because some of them wear the most unflattering clothes to reveal their bodies. I am totally the opposite. I think I am just a average girl, with a average figure. I don't have abs, and I don't have big parts on my body. My husband loves me the way I am, but it really suprises me that if I do gain a lot of weight, he will always stay with me no matter what. It makes me happy a lot, but I'm gonna try my best not to gain weight!
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
21 Jul 10
I'm lucky enough to have a boyfriend who doesn't need me to be slim because I'm not slim. Then again, he prefers big butts so that's good for me. lol. But we have discussed what would happen if I gained too much weight. My boyfriend already told me he would tell me if I'm getting too fat so I told him I would do the same thing for him. lol.
But seriously, I say the reasons to lose weight or to change yourself is for your own self-esteem and health. There are some guys who have high expectations that cannot be met- they are looking for pin-ups, not girlfriends.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
21 Jul 10
Once i love some one then that will be the final and i never give a space in my heart to others. Love won't matters about how the girls figure is or how much beauty is she. It always comes from the bottom of the heart and it should be the final settlement of our life.
@sweetjasmine2020 (39)
• India
21 Jul 10
No, i don't think this can be called as love it can be better called as attraction and about me , i hope that my boyfriend likes me and loves me and accept me as i am.
