Why do people stare at me when i say, I am an Atheist?

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India
July 20, 2010 11:03pm CST
I have passed many situation like this. People really ignore me/never mind my words when i proudly say them that i am an Atheist. Why do so?
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• Philippines
21 Jul 10
It's maybe because some people stereotype. And since atheist does not believe in any God, most people think they're up to no good since religion is generally seen as the moral foundation of a person. Personally, it does not matter who or what you believe in. We all are rational people and can think/decide for ourselves. What matter most is our actions and how we relate to other people.
• India
21 Jul 10
wow.. i got a new point from your response. RELIGION is considered to be the foundation for morals. . thanks for that. I think, it is true to the essence. i am also glad that, once you reach your maturity, .. you should start practicing what is taught in the name of religion, .. instead of mere repeating the chants, and mere following the RITUALS. being more HUMANLY is what a believer should do. and, thanks again... for telling us, .. what matters most! .. you are a genius.!~
• India
21 Jul 10
friend, jupiter.. the converse need not always be true. one needs to nurture some morals, and, for that.. religion is a vehicle. it does not mean that those who don't have a religion are immoral. thanks.. I hope you now got to the point.
• Canada
21 Jul 10
It is only considered the foundation for morals by the religious. It is a stupid argument that is simply not true. Studies have even shown that atheists make up the smallest percentage of the prison population, with proportions taken into account. Explain to me how that is possible if atheists have no moral foundations?
• India
21 Jul 10
it is because, you are not giving a clarity. you are creating confusion. there is nothing in the world, that could define either a BELIEVER or a non-believer. it is very very tough. so, I would suggest,.. instead of trying to define what is not clear.. it is better to keep low!... instead of declaring PROUDLY that you are an atheist, I would rather say, I don't understand or approve of the way people talk about GOD. is it not the same?
• India
21 Jul 10
umm.. I think you are an Agnostic... Don't mistake me dude.. Why should I keep low? Am I saying anything wrong...? I am just saying them what I Believe.. So I am not a non-believer too.. Definitely it is not the same..
• India
21 Jul 10
lols.. I am an INDIAN, .. and I have read a lot about the different types of religions.. as a vocation. .. and, no.. I did not, and do not take offense of this discussion. I request you to consider my comments too in the same way and spirit. ------------ now, I did not mean to say that you are wrong in your words. I MEAN to say, that the expression is not palatable to most. ...and, for that, .. you would have to use the language to your advantage... as it is not in the virtual world, but in the REAL WORLD. THANKS.
• India
21 Jul 10
Happy to get replied by an Indian... But I will be myself, I cant change my originality.. but will try to be as you said :)
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
21 Jul 10
I thought you knew why people stare at you when you say you are an atheist. You are fresh game to be converted to their religion. Ask a millions questions. That will keep them busy. If they threaten you with a fiery pit for eternity, relax. You are a child of God regardless of any beliefs or nonbeliefs. You are still eternal. God doesn't really fry those kids. Mankind just wants you to believe that.
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• India
21 Jul 10
personally as i have seen atheists live in a world of illusion that they are all illuminated and believers are ignorant masses sticking to scriptures and rituals that serves bo purpose. atheists kinda look down on religious people. and sometimes are hypocrites. so atheists have earned themselves an image that is too confident in its immaturity. may be that image has given a generalisation effect on u..
• India
21 Jul 10
hmmm... might be yaar.. but this shows their immaturity... why cant they thing the fact, trust the reality???
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• Canada
21 Jul 10
As the religious fanatics who replied to this topic have shown, the reason us atheists get this response is due to their fanaticism. Atheists are prejudiced against, there is no doubt. We are a minority. You don't need to look further than this discussion to see this. You should be proud to be an atheist, there is no reason to ever hide it. Instead, familiarize yourself with the arguments that religious folk will often throw at you, and the arguments against them. It will help in the event that they try to convert you or go on about what an evil heathen you are ;)
• India
21 Jul 10
well, why should there be a debate at all. and, why should there be an argument at all. .. there might be a god, or there might not be... all there is, and there should be is, HUMAN behavior. that is what I am trying to focus on! .. and, you should not be calling names. .. like FANATICS, etc.. because, it might trigger some angry responses. .. hope you are having a very nice time with other topics in mylot. ENJOY your stay, and happy mylotting.
• India
21 Jul 10
see, you have now cooled down. all what you said about debate and discussion .. is very true.... but, with the right tone, and spirit. ... it should result in a healthy exchange of view. not a biased opinion rubbing. .. I agree about the conversion trials also. YOU are lucky to have just met the street-side preachers.... we have professionals, who flock the hospitals, .. and schools... alas, ... this is a different world now!
• Canada
21 Jul 10
Debate is healthy and helps us to increase our analytical skills and gain more knowledge. As for arguments, I have experienced many street preachers in my life who approach me and try to convert me. It is helpful to be prepared for what they say (as many of the same arguments for religion are given over and over again) and have responses ready. I agree that all we should be focusing on is our fellow humans and increasing our happiness and potential while alive. However, religion holds us back from doing so in many cases. I believe I trigger angry responses anyhow due to my lack of religious belief. I stand by saying that there is a lot of religious fanaticism in this discussion. It is not calling names, it is making an observation and describing it with the most accurate word.
• India
21 Jul 10
For Everything that happens in the UNIVERSE there's something behind (some may call it as GOD)... Without that something this universe can't float in the middle of something... we don't know the length, height or breadth of it... We are just getting Informations and not the Reality we consider as reality only because we are so confident in our inventions... If someone says "I believe myself, all good and bad things happen to me because of me" then he is indirectly saying "He is The God to Him" All Humans should believe in something (to himself/relative/statue/scriptures/anything) once started believing he is automatically becomes a Follower to that thing!!!
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
23 Jul 10
does it matter what they think ? spirituality is a personal choice you believe what you want to believe and you don't believe what you don't want to believe spirituality is not science, although science has always tried to prove spirituality so it doesn't matter what people think of what you believe and what you don't life is to learn and move forward find your truth and live by it if you follow the wrong path, you will learn from it that really is what life is all about nothing to do with what people think about you or what you believe
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
An Atheist is a person who do not believe in God. People will really ignore you because you are proud when you say to them that you're an atheist. How come you do not believe in God? Just see your body. It's so wonderful. The body members are all properly coordinated, all parts fall into its perfect places, the blood that runs into your veins, how your heart pumps blood, how greaty your vital organs functions...this indicates that there is God who wonderfully created us! No one can create anything in the universe except..God who calls not being into being! We human beings have 3 parts. we have a spirit, soul and body. (1 Thessalonians 5:23) When you eat you use your mouth as an organ or part of your body. when you think using your mind that is the part of your soul. your spirit is the deepest part in your being, an organ to contact God, receive God, and believe in God. YOu have to believe to believe in God.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
The fool has said in his heart there is no God! Those who say there is no God is an Atheist. Now don't be surprised if people stare at you when you say you are an Atheist because it is very clear you are declaring yourself to be a fool. Tsk! Tsk! Tsk! And by the way here is the saddest news for you. You are going to hell! http://hubpages.com/hub/ARE-YOU-GOING-TO-HELL
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
24 Jul 10
Why don't you ask them?
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
23 Jul 10
I have no idea. I think Atheist is the most unbelievable position possible. But that's me. I have no idea why anyone would be staring at you. Maybe you have toothpaste on your cheek or something?
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Hello there, Simple, they are annoyed, be wildered, and will likely to stay away from you as soon as possible. although it's nice of you to speak of what you believed but people will take it negatively. you can't helped it, that's the way it is. one thing for sure, they don't give a damn what state of belief are you in, it's just that they won't be bothered by it. you can't expect people to talked back most specially they know you're atheist or any other religion for that matter, most hate debates and would go on with their way. they will ignore you when they are annoyed, i have seen cases of that too. hope you understand them.
• India
22 Jul 10
I do understand them.. that's why in my personal life i have a balanced relationship with the fellow dudes :)
• India
21 Jul 10
thennarasu, yes of course, until unless you are not abusing their believes, no one will take care of you. how like you ignoring the people who really loves the god and believe the god exist, as like the people will ignore you if you say there is no god exist.. try to recall the newtons second law..
• India
22 Jul 10
Hi Vijai, I am not abusing others believe even i go with them to temple, chruch the one thing i enjoy the silence there... and i respect their belief and at the same time i keep my valid point iwhy i dont believe in religion,GOD... The thing the God believers will say is, they were brought up in such a family/background. I am just asking the peoples to think the reality and respect others.. After all We are all humans and all are equal.
@shockrayz (199)
23 Jul 10
in the first place, in what situation are you saying you're an atheist.. i mean, what is your topic of discussion that make you said that to them. they look because you said something that oppose your idea to them,, i just thought.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
22 Jul 10
For the same reason some people do it to christians, muslims, etc.... No tolerance, no acceptance, they choose to focus on others rather than focus on their own path to salvation, or their own path in life. It is just human nature to judge and criticize others, it helps us forget our own faults and problems. Sorry this happens to you, I wish humans would give more effort in acceptance.
@Latrivia (2878)
• United States
21 Jul 10
Well, that depends on what you say, when you say it, and how you say it. If you come off sounding like you're bragging, then I wouldn't be surprised if people don't know what to say. If you interject the fact that you're an atheist into an unrelated discussion topic, or if you go around saying it willy-nilly, people may not take you seriously. That, or they've just never met an atheist before and are therefore unsure of what to say when you tell them what you are.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
22 Jul 10
Hi thennarasugr, I'm not sure why anyone would be staring because more and more people are claiming to be atheists everyday. It isn't really strange because many think that the only other choice is to believe in a God who sends people to hell. Be careful, they may be out to convert you. Blessings.