Have you ever had a Love /Hate relationship?

@bunnybon7 (50973)
Holiday, Florida
July 20, 2010 11:23pm CST
now im ashamed and wondering if this woman is just not really all there and im blaming her for things she cant comprehend. or maybe im just a cratchety old lady set in my ways? Im not sure. i was so upset all day and thought id stay that way, but it doesnt take much to win me over im afraid. Hey, maybe im the nut case. anyway, do you like Krispy Kreme donuts? I have a terrible weakness for them. i hadnt had any for a couple of years. she took the little boy out to the pool park. on the way back she decided to surprise everyone with Krispy Kreme donuts.2 dozen!!I was so happy i hugged her and asked her to marry me... what a goof ball iam, huh? yep, i actually got cold chills. son got so jealous, he whipped out my birthday present..lol. one of those shower heads you can take down from the wall and has a long hose on it. what ive been wanting so long. anyway, my birthday isnt until 24th of august..geesh. is it the complaining ive been doing? did you get great birthday presents way before your birthday?
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14 responses
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Jul 10
How did she react? Do we have a name for her yet? Is she agra2? I've not had Krispy Kremes but my daughter has and I'm dying to try one. I must get her to find me some Reeses peanut butter cups too. Why on earth did son become jealous? It's a good thing though when you receive your birthday gift early....me, I don't receive birthday gifts these days. I'm lucky if I get a phone call. However, I do have one of those shower heads and it's marvellous. I hope you enjoy yours. I hope you have a lovely birthday on the day too.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Jul 10
Sadly, I'm now accustomed to not celebrating my birthday. It used to be one of my favourite things too. I think a person's birthday is the one opportunity all year to make a person feel special. Big hugs to you.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
11 Sep 10
Thanks for best response.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Jul 10
aaawwww! you are so sweet and thanks for the suggestion. yes maybe i should nic name her agra 2 i guess you got my number huh? so sorry about your birthday. as many on here that dont get even a card, we should start a card shower thing to show our appreciation of friends like you.
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@bhanusb (5709)
• India
22 Jul 10
Love and hate are twin sisters. I'm giving you birthday present in advance. Will you hate me?
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jul 10
no cant hate you hon, and i believe it is sisters. what you giving me?
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
23 Jul 10
A big hug and a long kiss(if you permit).
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Jul 10
cool. to bad we are far away
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
22 Jul 10
Uh, Well, Yeah..I had figured we all had that kind of relationship..even if it is with those you love but hate what they do...and sometimes those we don't want to like does things to make us wanna pull our hair out one minute..then kiss them the next..as they say..fine line between love and hate..or even like and hate... I so wanted one of those kinds of shower heads.. I had to buy one myself but for some reason it didn't fit my shower and so I am guessing I have to get one with the rubber cupping on it to be able to fit my shower arm. I do sometimes get my gifts early with my mom or a friend..since they might not see me on my birthday..This year I wanted to open a few gifts on my actual b-day so refused to open two that were from my cousin,her daughter, and her boyfriend. It was a computer,a computer mouse,keyboard, and a HP all in one printer..with new ink..I was excited to get it..surprised..the mouse looks like a Porsche and the headlights and taillights light up and it is the kind that don't have the ball..then I went swimming which I love doing...
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
23 Jul 10
The computer and printer wasn't new but way better then I had...but the car mouse and the keyboard are...Yeah he and they have big hearts.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jul 10
wow. wish i had your relatives. a computer beats the heck out of krispy kreems as much as i love them
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
Goofball! I have a love/hate relationships with Krispy Kreme donuts, or at least I did when I could still get them. I haven't seen any in years. :-(
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
I think they expanded too fast and ran into money troubles. Anyway, I hope they recover...
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Jul 10
so sorry dawn. id love to share with you. i havent seen any in years before now either. i guess dunkin donuts must have about knocked them off the market. but she some how found them. my son seems to have a tendency to get stubborn, head strong women. probably why we dont mesh
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Jul 10
Well, you had me at Krispy Kreme there. It has been a while since I've had any of them as well. I absolutely love them though and would eat them everyday if they weren't so bad for my health and expensive. However, since that isn't really the point of the discussion, I will answer your question as well. I've never been lucky enough to get a great birthday gift early. In fact, this year the only birthday/mother's day/anniversary gifts that I've gotten are things that I have bought for myself.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Jul 10
so sorry. if i lived near by id make sure you got a krispy kreme or something
• Malaysia
24 Jul 10
I'm not hate a relationship before, but in friendship. God yes, haha. for example, a fellow who's current working on the same show as I, he's a great guy, nice, non-threatening, etc and the two of us love each other dearly(as friends), but when together, all we can do is argue, argue, and argue. And it drives our friends crazy, but that;s just how we get along.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
11 Sep 10
Hey, I reckon that bunny makes this woman feel insecure and that's why she's so obnoxious in an effort to stay in control ???
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Jul 10
yep thats what im talking about. some people think they know everything and argue about everything. its like if you say the sky is blue they will say thats actually a reflection of grey, etc. or something thats how this one is and i used to have a sister in law like that. no matter what you say they disagree, even if you have proof,
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Jul 10
hi bunnybon she just knew the way to your heart, krispy kremes yummy So you and her got back on good terms.oh your son was early but what a wonderful gift, I have always wanted one of those things that you can use in you hand to shower with, and my husband had promised me he would buy me one. this is sad, and I should not bring it up but the day he promised me that he had been moved from the ICU to a private room so I naturally assumed he was better but that was our last converation and I told him I loved him and a cold chill struck me. so when he had the final heart attack I was shocked but not too surprised as that chill should have told 'me something was wrong. Any way I did not ever want to see a hand heldshower apparatus again for years. odd what we will think in pain and grieving. I did get a great new flashlight from my son way before Christmas last.The funny thing is the darned thing broke down and my son took it apart and told me it had a flaw, so he is going to buy me at new one. I am just so thrilled he is working again. hugs from hatley.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Jul 10
it seems you and i are always thinking of our late hubbys because they were so good to us. everything we see or is brought up some days just makes us think of them. i know my John promised me a dog, but he didnt want us to have a little dog cause he wanted something like a lab. thats what i ended up with while he was in hospital. i kind of thought he might not come home but i still had that little bit of hope there. sadly, he never got to see our lab i got. id go in his room at hospice and hed ask hows our puppy? oh well. im so glad for your sons job to sweetie. give us aLL the updates when you get your new place. hugs, bon
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
21 Jul 10
I think there is alot of jealousy going on at your house, Bon. I hope y'all can work it all out where everybody is happier. Have a good wed.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Jul 10
yes its one of our biggest problems. hope you have a great wednesday to
@celticeagle (166757)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Jul 10
Oh, honey........where do I begin??!! My granddaughter and I have had a love/hate relationship. I had guardianship of her for about twelve years. Two summers ago she did some things that put us all in fits. I won't go into the freaky details. (Most on here have heard it all before anyway)Needless to say it all turned around. Did I get great birthday presents before my birthday? At my house we open Christmas presents early and get birthday presents early or all year round really. We get so excited we can't wait to give the gift once we have gotten it. I am glad you had a sweet time.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Jul 10
i think it shows im not that hard to please...and i do try to forgive. that is so cool that your family is quite loving it sounds like even though they have been a bit confused with how to treat you at times, i think thats whats up with mine. not sure they even know how to treat mothers any more. i know no matter how grumpy, mean or anything, i always respected, loved and tried to treat my mom good. even though she never treated me with the same loving care i have my kids. and something about granddaughters always gets our hearts. we always want to keep them safe and happy in spite of all they do to get into terrible messes.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Jul 10
Hi bunny! Oh no you didn't! Now you will have to be nice to her forever and just because she bought some Krispy Kreme Donuts!lol I have never had any of those because we don't have any here where I live! We have Dunkin Donuts instead and I love dounuts too! Well, at least you got what you wanted for your birthday! I don't even get any gifts for mine, never mind getting them early! So count yourself really lucky! I'm lucky if I get a card!
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jul 10
oh well thats not fair..not even a card. not really, she knows it was excitment of the moment im sure. i do think though that son got a bit concerned about how much we were getting along as compared to his recent aggravations of how little control she has over her kid. so, thats why he brought out the birthday present she bought them for the house actually because shes from NY and says she wanted to see what they were like. she didnt really know i have a big weakness for them
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
21 Jul 10
To tell your the truth, I don't really care about my birthday, neither the present. I think most people already forgot about my birthday already, and I don't really want any big surprise at all. I just let it go.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Jul 10
well thats just sad. sorry king. i dont usually care either. cause by the time you are my age you want to forget it but my son heres BD is the day after mine so a bit hard to total forget here.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
I had a hate relationship with my ex-boyfriend before. I really hated him not because we broke up but because he told people that I am a bad person and they hated me for that. But I had some news about him recently and he's not happy. I think i believe in karma now.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jul 10
yes, dont we just love it when something comes back on a person that has wronged us? glad for you. im hoping myself that everything that goes around, comes around with people like this.
@Lotswits (176)
• Hong Kong
22 Jul 10
I don't have a special feeling about a donut. I'm just wondering the donuts could make a man doing a proposal! Is Kripsy Kreme made of chocolate?
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jul 10
no im sure she knew it was a joke about how much i love them.anyway, krispy kreme is like any other donuts, you can order them with chocolate,jelly, glazed, etc. only they are just better.
• United States
22 Jul 10
ikr and yes
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jul 10
what does ikr mean? and need to tell you friend, you need to respond with at least 3 lines or you wont make any thing. and please no texting or IM language. just trying to help here. read the rules here. ok?