Do u believe that men can love two women at the same time?

Philippines
July 21, 2010 6:16am CST
I keep on thinking if a man can love two women at the same time? In the Philippines it is a great issue that family are being broken apart because of the male ego that follows the saying "a man i born polygamous". That it is only natural for a man to get involve in may relationships at the same time. But it's not appropriate. What about the wife? What about their children if they get separated eventually because of that?
6 responses
@whateva (786)
• India
18 Dec 10
yah i know its wrong, apparently my brother did love two women at once. he wasnt married to any of them. he started out with non serious relationship with 3 girls( being a guy he was obviously insensitive), left 2 and when i realized that the girl was serious and he always abused her, i told her about how my brother isnt serious and may be has one more girlfriend. i was only 15,was a nut job for such stuff ,all i knew was a guy should be honest and this isnt the way he should behave so i told her and she left,brother cried alot. i thought it was an obvious reaction you feel more attached to the person who leaves first :/ and i idnt care. after 2 years he was in a serious relationship with some girl and i totally supported both of them. things were goin great ,brother looked serious for first time and he continued that relationship for 2 years ,but then he tells me he is again goin out with his old girlfriend who left because of me and he was serious fo rher, while at the same time he said he liovs the present girl as well :| he stayed in delima for year o so and sometimes he would say f*k i'll marry both then and he really loved both of them but with time he was abl eto leave one of them,that is the new one and is now with the old one. so i guess guys can be man wh*re,nut job for emotions and i dont really wanna know more :p makes me hate them :/
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
18 Dec 10
Unless we know the true meaning of love, we cannot answer that truly. Sometimes, what we associate with love is just passion or physical attraction, which so or later disappears. Relationships cannot survive on just passion, which is just the beginning of the relationship. So, a man could very well have feeling for more than one women, but the feeling or totally different. One of the women will surely be the loser, because in the end the man will leave the one woman he is not fully committed to or he will stay her if the other woman doesn't want him around anymore. So, I don't believe that a man can love two women at one time; care for two at once, absolutely.
@luckycat (220)
• Bolivia
14 Dec 10
Well, i believe that if a man love two women at the same time,that's not love,he doesn't know about love.If you love a woman enough,it's impossible to share with the other women.So when a man love two women at the same time,that's probably not love.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
21 Jul 10
Hi dear, Of course we can do it. Why not only 2 why not more? Because love is a feeling not to limited in number but it has to give and take. The entire universe it built in that principle. When we come to more closer to individuals and quite personal, it become an issue and a question. In fact each and every person who is man or women, they have a feeling to love more. Because, love is getting attracted by beauty. We can see many beautiful thing around may be in human being or anything around. If I like some one from my opposite gender, of course there may be some kind of attraction. And a different type of attraction can make love to another person also. But our society is not permitted. Not permitted means we are just ignoring our desire to get it. There may be bad consequences there after. I had a research paper on this subject when I was in my PG. On this subject, I made more than 50 different cases individually with man and women (confidentially). I didn't surprised, because I was knowing the result that out of 25 women I met, except 3 all are interest to love with more than 1 person or whom they like. Also, about man also similar. They also would like to any number of girls, with whom they find something attractive. So, we just suppressing our feelings only it is not socially approved. All man and women would like to go for more than 2,3, etc. but only one condition that no one should know it. If the same can keep in secret, all will go for it. I am sure. Because love has the power to conquer human beings and all living things (I mean to say not only human being). Regards, Thank-s
@irisseno (134)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
for me if a man loves two woman...that would simply mean that he doesn't love the first woman that much anymore cause he's heart got a space to love another,,,
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
i don't believe in loving two or more persons at the same time... and i am so against this system wherein married men tend to getting involved with other women... that's so selfish of them not to think about what will their wives and children felt when they do that... why can't they stick to one woman...because they indulge on the lust that they felt to attractive women out there without even considering that they are already committed...and that's what i hate about men...they are never satisfied...it's rare to find a "one woman man" nowadays...so sad but true...