Am I pretty? They told me Yes I am. . But I don't think I am. .
By ftrazona
@ftrazona (222)
Philippines
July 21, 2010 6:33am CST
I raised that question to myself because I've been hating myself for being so damn. . I was liking someone. . he is my friend. . But why is it he seems like he don't like me? Like he's going away from me. . I don't understand. . I don't think I am that ugly . .
5 responses
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
hello there! is that you in your pic?
well,i think you should keep your eyebrows down for him not to be scared at you,
kidding!
yeah,i think he's just respecting your friendship,or he's just shy to be with you at times.have you said your feelings for him?
maybe he just like friendships,actually there are sooo many reasons why someone don't seem to like you or is it just your imagination that he doesn't like you?
you'll never know until you ask.
but sometimes asking makes things complicated regarding feelings.
you just have to let it out,my friend!
you might know,he does like you but afraid to tell.
kidding!
yeah,i think he's just respecting your friendship,or he's just shy to be with you at times.have you said your feelings for him?
maybe he just like friendships,actually there are sooo many reasons why someone don't seem to like you or is it just your imagination that he doesn't like you?
you'll never know until you ask.
but sometimes asking makes things complicated regarding feelings.
you just have to let it out,my friend!
you might know,he does like you but afraid to tell.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
thank you for liking my comment,dear!
yes,don't be too sad cause you're still lucky to have him as a friend.and with my comment,yeah,i guess it's really hard to ask that question to a guy if he likes you.it might sound you are over confident that he may like you.just be yourself,sooner or later you'll know what he really feels about you.and if he just want you to be his friend,just respect that.don't be too sad.cause there's plenty of guys out there who'll love you the way you really are...just be patient!
@ftrazona (222)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I like your comment. . i actually don't make myself pretty. . just now coz he always says "she's cute" "hey, she's so pretty" I just make up my self pretty at least he could tell me the same. . but I didn't hear any from him. Yah, maybe he's respecting our friendship. . and there's a possibility that he's just shy to me. . but on your suggestion like asking him, I don't know. . I can't do that move. . I'm a girl. . It's not right for me to ask. . :(
Thank you. . :)
@ashton77 (292)
• India
24 Jul 10
If that's you on the picture profile and if these is what you have to say then think that your friend is not looking for the beauty. Gosh you are good looking. There are guys for whom beauty means anything (talking about a physical beauty here). On the other hand there are guys who look for inner beauty. I am not labeling you into the latter category but I guess you need to understand and show your friend the other side of your prettiness( and that's more of inner beauty). Good luck
@ftrazona (222)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
talking about inner beauty, many of my friends told me im pretty both in and out. I don't know why. . i don't understand his moves anymore. . Before, we were too sweet. . But this time, he's like going away from me. . He told me " I need space " which I dont know what it really means. . :(
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
IMHO a guy not only fall in love because of beauty but many factors like can he do anything for the girl, can he do any of the work, can he be appropriate in the eyes of others. The one thing that I think repel a boy from a girl is her unbearable attitude like too much care too much pamper, almost suffocating, always sweet and nice, invite the boy to do demanding tasks, be her slave. Now considering all of these to be possible once the relationship starts, who's the loser? No boy would be fool to agree with these conditions so his decision should be treated with respect.
@ftrazona (222)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
i always respect whatever his decision is. . Im giving him what he wants. . Im not depriving him. Im so kind to him. Im doing what he want. Im not making him my slave. . All I just wanted to ask, were they not enough? I can't be called beautiful if i dont have any virtue. . Im beautiful inner. . my friends told me that.. im just curious, why he's going away. . :(
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
yes you are, maybe your friend does not like you as girlfriend. I think guys dont really look in a girls face. If all guys just like beautiful woman then there will be no ugly girl who has bf. You and your friend is a wrong combination.
I am actually asking the same question on myself.
@thunder915 (180)
• India
2 Aug 10
I don't think you are ugly,you are looking good and beautiful. How could you say that you are not beautiful please don't blame yourself. some goes for inner beauty and some goes for physical appearance. I do hope inner beauty cost more than physical beauty.
