Am I weird?
By TheRealDawn
@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
July 21, 2010 11:09am CST
Well, yes I am, but am I weird because I don't like sharing the shower? Seriously, I like my nice hot shower. I don't like having to get out of the stream because somebody else needs to rinse off. Take your own darn shower when I get out. 
Am I weird?
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
21 Jul 10
OMG I really needed this right at this moment. Did the other person soap up at the face basin?Sending you 
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
The other person got the shower upstairs and I got the shower downstairs.
But talk about delusional, he really thought when I went to take a shower this morning that I wanted to take one with him. After everything.... (shakes head)
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
No, HE thought I wanted to join HIM. I went downstairs...
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
21 Jul 10
Still in denial. Am sorry but I had a mental image of you in the shower and R soaping up at a face basin and wanting you to get out. I did not know that he wanted to join you
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
22 Jul 10
You are trying to get him to move out and he is jumping in the shower with you, eh? He is desperate to keep you. Thinks he can entice you with his body and you will reconcile and all will be 'back to normal' in his world.
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
22 Jul 10
Yep, delusional. I would use the shower with a locked door from now on, too, if I were you. He has no fear of YOU walking in on him in the shower or trying to join him. That is the problem, in his little mind. He wants you back and he will do anything he can think of, no matter how stupid, to do so. Poor man. I almost feel sorry for him and his delusions.....NOT!!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
I do feel sorry for him, but that doesn't change anything.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
And his body's such an enticement.
NOT..
He's delusional. I didn't like sharing the shower when things were OK. I don't even like him being in the room when I take one. Which is why I'll be taking mine downstairs from now on.
NOT..
He's delusional. I didn't like sharing the shower when things were OK. I don't even like him being in the room when I take one. Which is why I'll be taking mine downstairs from now on.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
I don't have a bathroom door. But I went downstairs....
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
The master bedroom in my house has no door between it and the bathroom, however there is a door where the toilet is. So the sinks, shower and tub are open, and you have to lock the entire bedroom to have privacy.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
21 Jul 10
Not really. people might not like to share stuff in the household. Like my aunt, she loves to be cleaned. So, if someone go to her house, she would demand people to take off their shoes, or use paper cup for water drinking.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
Hopefully she doesn't make them bring their own paper cups!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
21 Jul 10
Or their own water! God I am so bad today!
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
21 Jul 10
Hi Dawn,
It is not weird that you don't like sharing the shower with someone else. Some people do and others just don't. Either way is fine. There are times when it can be fun but I'd have to say, I would not want to do it on a regular basis. Also, you use way more water when you take the shower together, I think. I take quick hot showers but the times when I've shared I have to say they have been way longer! 
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
22 Jul 10
Well, I'm not sure but I think so. If you are by yourself you tend to get in,soap up and shampoo, rinse and maybe even shave legs and pits. I can do all that in 10 mins. With someone else, you do all that and play also so I'd say that it would have to take longer all around.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
Longer than one, sure, but longer than two separate showers? 
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
Hooray, sharing is weird, not sharing is normal!!!
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
1 Aug 10
Now if we had more money and had one of those fancy bathrooms 4x the size of what we have now and could sport a shower head on both sides of a larger stall then fine... but I'd only be sharing that w/ hubby of course ;0) We used to shower togeather when we lived in our apartment but in our house we can't... partly because the kids are always into something.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Aug 10
two shower heads isn't really sharing, in my book...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
What is there some rule that Indians don't like to share showers?
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
22 Jul 10
This discussion made me think of the shower experience I had last night. We have to bathrooms upstairs, and I guess just one main water line for both. I was taking a shower, and I guess my son started to take his on the other bathroom. So instead of having a strong continuous stream of water, mine turned into just about trickle! I hate it when that happens. In this particular instance, I hate sharing the shower!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
Yeah nothing like having two showers going at once, or with the dishwasher, the washing machine, etc. Brrr...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
Ok we can be weird together. Just not in the shower.
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
22 Jul 10
there is no weird , is normaly who wanted share to shower even that our bro or sis and what make you can call your self weird ???????
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
soon to be ex husband likes sharing the shower, I don't
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 10
to me you so normaly no weird , any way you husband wanted share it just fine to him but not oke to you just you got a go far away from him because his your ex anyway, in the shower we can put any secreat of we are even from you shadow
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 Jul 10
Hubby doesn't think much anything should be private. There is one of our issues!
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
23 Jul 10
Heck yeah, you're weird! LOL But then again so am I and everyone else that's on this planet. One of my favorite quotes of all time happens to be "everybody is somebody else's weirdo." It's so true, it's kinda scary! 
LOL
Oh wait, that's not what you were talking about, now was it? LOL Good thing I didn't just go by the title alone, or else my response wouldn't have made any sense at all. Or would it? To answer your real question, nah, you're not weird. Shoot, I don't like sharing the shower either. But then again, I don't like sharing it because the shower stall is so darn small. If it was bigger, I'd be more than happy to share it with my husband. It can be a lot more fun that way, after all! 
Happy mylotting!
LOL
Oh wait, that's not what you were talking about, now was it? LOL Good thing I didn't just go by the title alone, or else my response wouldn't have made any sense at all. Or would it? To answer your real question, nah, you're not weird. Shoot, I don't like sharing the shower either. But then again, I don't like sharing it because the shower stall is so darn small. If it was bigger, I'd be more than happy to share it with my husband. It can be a lot more fun that way, after all!
Happy mylotting!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jul 10
I like that expression. It reminds me of:
"You are unique and special. Just like everybody else."
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
31 Jul 10
nope.i don't like it either.
if it were one of those big multi headed spray ones with plenty of room,maybe.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
23 Jul 10
I have to say that I enjoy taking a long hot shower. However, I also like having some fun with my wife in the shower as well if you know what I mean LOL
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jul 10
Yep, I do, but normally I don't like to share. Not for regular showers anyway...
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
25 Jul 10
Hi, dawnald. You are in no way at all weird. I don't like sharing my shower with anyone either. If my husband joins me, for a romantic encounter, then that is fine with me. Other than that, I want to wash alone with no one in the same shower stall with me. I can't see how prisoners wash in the same shower stall. I need my privacy when I wash off. So, don't think that you are weird, because you are not.
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