Why am I not pregnant yet?

Feminine members may enlighten you better on this. From my knowledge on the subject I feel you ought to relax about the delay and not remain so anxious. That can change some of your harmonal balance. There could be some genetic trends also - I mean if your mother or your husband,s had delayed pregnencies. A good gynacologist could check up and your husband too has to undergo some check. All the same you are only married for 16 months, and I can advise you to take it easy.

Oh God, did you say 16 months? As I have learned during my college life, if a couple has been trying to conceive for at least 12 months and nothing happens, they are recommended to undergo sterility test. The problem may be due to hormonal imbalances especially for women (which I believe the reason why your doctor prescribed you of some hormonal meds), and low count for men. I know I'm giving a very common information here but I think it would help. Uhm, it is also helpful to trace your family history of sterility.

Hi, Having a child can not be rush and it is depend on the GOD. For me, I was pregnant after married for almost a year,but both me and my husband are not really planning to have a child,we just let the nature takes course, and when it comes, we will just accept it. Since you guys have visit gynae and on medication,let's pray hard that you will have a good news soon. Having a healthy balanced diet and have enough rest will enhance your good health. I believe when the good news come, both of you and your in-laws will be extremely happy. Good luck!!

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When trying to get pregnant the one thing you should know timing is everything. Have s(e)x too early and you risk not having enough (s)perm in the area to fertilize the egg. Have s(e)x too late then you risk missing the golden opportunity for egg fertilization. Women on a 25 to 28 day cycle can get pregnant fairly easily barring there are any underlying medical conditions in both your partner that would prevent pregnancy. Women with a normal cycle can expect ovulation to occur between the 14th to 16th days of the cycle, including menstruation days. A good Ovulation Predictor kit will pin point the day ovulation will most likely to occur. Hope this helps..

Yes I did... especially with my second, it took me almost 3 years. A lot of people say it will happen when it's time to, but I found it very frustrating, and I began to think something was wrong with me. In the end I took a vitamin called "Evening Primrose Oil", sounds disgusting I know, but they came in capsule form. I took them everyday, and after a month of taking them I fell pregnant with Justin, who I gave birth to January 2009. I am not saying that they were the reason why I fell pregnant with him, but I do believe that they helped me. The reason being, is because they are a vitamin to help keep women maintain a healthy hormonal balance. You can buy them over the counter as they are a vitamin. Try taking them and see if this helps, you never know they may have the same effect as they did with me.

Hi p3ks First of all try not to think about trying for baby as it is said if you try to hard it will not happen, there is the cycle to yes but again just try to be as normal as possible It took me a year to fall pregnant I then lost the baby, after that it took me another 8 months to fall again But I was told I would never have children well I am very lucky to have 2 Just try to relax, shove things out of your Mind, do not go by timing just let nature take its cause and if in another 12 months nothing has happened then I suggest you get your Doctor to run some tests

better see a doctor now.

I've met young couples who had similar problems. My advice has always been the same. I always tell the guy to take up jogging. And to tell me what time he goes jogging. So then I could come in visit the wife! Just kidding. I'm sure what the people around you is saying, is right. It's just timing. It will come. One time, everything will be perfect! The setting, the environment, the surroundings, etc. And you'll soon be pregnant. In the meantime, just have fun practicing at it! Goodluck!

my friend got pregnant after two years of marriage but finally she's now 5 months pregnant. they too, undergone work-ups and such. and then the OB told them to rest for a year and then they'll try again. so they stopped seeing the doctor and just leave it up to the Lord. now they're pregnant and all is of course very excited after all the baby will be the first grandchild :) so i think you should be more patient and try to relax yourself. i'm sure relaxing will do you a lot of good. avoid stressing yourself. your baby is going to come soon!

Hi p3.. Yes I think that it all goes with timing. Just keep on thinking positive things., You can try to think of ways you check it online the internet can provide you lots of information on how to get pregnant the natural way. Just stay healthy and always watch out for your health/.

i have heard and seen a lot of couples in my circle who waited for years.the longest is seven years.both you and your husband should be very involved in this.both should consult the doctor first,it shouldn't only be you.if the doctor says you are both ok then there shouldn't be any problem.you just have to relax and not pressure yourselves from not having able to have one yet.stress is a big factor.sometimes it's when you least expect it that it comes.good luck!!!

hi! have you tried going to your ob-gyn? i do, i am 2.5 years married and we want to have babies soon. that's why i go to my doctor. i found out that i have PCOS so that's why i dont ovulate. but after taking the meds. i have my regular ovulation monthly. ill be on my 5th cycle of clomid. hopefully to get pregnant soon. i actually thought i am pregnant this month because i was delayed and i have spotting. maybe it is only due to hormonal imbalance. so i schedule myself for doctor's appointment again. go to the doctor so you will know why.

well, keep continue your effort and don't give up. it's just been 16 months after marriage though. still a long way to go. but if it continues without any results, I guess both of you should do checking again on both fertility level between yourself. There must be reason for the situation though. Everything have reason to happen.

Hi, Don't be upset!! Take time and slowly. Once you get nervous and putting pressure on yourself,then it might not go right. since you have took medicine and consult with doctor and no problem on both you and your husband,then it is just a matter of time. I can understand your feeling of having a baby in your family,but you have to stay calm and then only thing will go smoothly. Get some advice from a gynae,choose the best time where you are productive enough and try your best with your hubby. Hope a good news will Up soon and do share with us when there is a good news.

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I got friends who has the same situation as you are now...they even married for 5 years and even adopted a child but when his husband got a month vacation .....after two months my friend found out that she was pregnant..sometimes you need rest....if your a workaholic type of person why dont you both try a vacation together

Try not to worry too much and also save it for the the 'right' time, like when you're ovulating, really get to know your body and its natural timing. Try to stay as healthy as you can, healthy habits, lifestyle and don't stress about it too much, and everything should slot into place naturally, good luck! :)

I am sorry to know that you don't get pregnant and you want it so much. Though I haven't experienced anything like that because when we decided to have a baby I was pregnant the next month, I have heard from many people that when you are so anxious to get pregnant it doesn't happen. Moreover when the in-laws are concerned... do you feel kind of sorry and think there is something wrong with you? Don't try to convince anybody and just keep on living without concentrating on thoughts about pregnancy. I am sure it will happen when you are expecting it the least. Good luck.