Do u give advise to your friend?
By xorticanz
@xorticanz (377)
India
July 22, 2010 10:33am CST
I do give in time of need and not always. If we do always, that will irritate them. But as i said if they are in trouble, i will surely give advise and help them out of it. I choose my friends. But they are for a life time. I have many of them now and i enjoy a great time with them. They love me a lot and are ready to support me all the time. Sometimes help goes to monetary basis too. We should do it if we can surely. Else try to get it from someone and help them. Share ur thoughts on the same.
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41 responses
@joey_matthews (8354)
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27 Oct 10
I often give friends and family advice, I think most of us spend a lot of time giving people our thoughts on situations. Those who have the ability to listen and understand can give others a clearer insight, especially if our friends are emotional at the time.
Funnily enough people come to me quite often, I don't really know why this apart from the fact people think I would blabber about what I'm told and the fact I actually care.
Guess people trust me in this sense, it's quite nice.
@jeanieous (107)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Of course I do. I advise them but not forcing them to take it because it is their own life. I am just a friend who is concerned and will never be the hindrance to his/her happiness.
@sheetalnr (586)
• India
26 Jul 10
I have a bunch of friends who keep advising each other on many things. So yes, i do advise my friends too.
@godslove25 (402)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Yes I also give advices whoever needs my advices but to those who aren't asking I still give them but only to my close friends.
@darylT (85)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
i'm more of a listener friend than an adviser. i try to avoid giving advice unless asked. the measure of a true friendship is being there when a friend is in need. sometimes, it means giving financial help.
@george000 (166)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yes,I do give advise to my friends. Mostly I advise them, when they were in problems.When my friends get tension of small things, I always ask them to no to think over it all the time and it is past and let it be the past only and we should not regret about the past thing.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
24 Jul 10
As same I usually do that. I like to give advise if it is necessary and helpful to that person. My friend do listen to my advise and they don't get into the problems. They always seek my advise whenever they are in problems and I always help them.
@jose431 (164)
• India
24 Jul 10
Yes,I do only sometime when my friend commits mistake I used to give.I choose my friends for my life but not for one day or another day.They love me to being their friend we always used to stay happily like our family and they never lead me to miss my parents.
@carline612 (142)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yea,I do give them advice sometime but not always.As a saying too much of something is poisonous,If we do always then they will feel bad.Normally I give them advice when they are trying to step into wrong path.
@pirate451 (152)
• India
26 Jul 10
yes,I do give advise to my friend if they do wrong things but not always when they are do in problem only,hope may be they also expected a same from.Friendship means we should to help when ever they needed.Now I really miss my friends those who I gave advise.Just now I have friend all elder the me even then I used to give advise to them which they don't know what to say or what to do.
@thunder915 (180)
• India
24 Jul 10
Acutally it depends on situation where we should advice our friends, unnecesarry giving advice will not benefit for them rather than they will ignore us.I do give sometime whenever they were in trouble or in any kind or uncomfortable situation. As from my point of view we should advice our friend whenever they go for wrong path take bad decision.
@thunder915 (180)
• India
24 Jul 10
Yes I do give whenever I think I should give. From my point of view we should give advice to our friend when they are in trouble or in any bad situation.And most important things is that we should advice our friend whenever they go for wrong side.My friend always used to guide me and adivce me whenever I am in uncomfortable situation.
@phoenix867 (182)
• India
24 Jul 10
Yes I do give advise when it is needed.If I give advise all the time they may get irritate and they may not like it.I give advise when my friends are in wrong direction or they are in critic situation.Advise should be given in a right time and friend should be in good mood to except advise.
@wannaberich (246)
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23 Jul 10
I can give them if they need it or the need arises. I don't want to be too intrusive in other peoples' lives. For monetary basis, it really depends on the situation.
@rose005 (254)
• India
24 Jul 10
I do give advise when it is needed.If I give advise all the time they may
get irritate.I give advise when my friend makes a bad decision or going through a wrong direction.It is not good to give advise all the time they may not like it.Advise should be given in a right time and make sure that friend is in good mood.
@george000 (166)
• India
24 Jul 10
When ever they were in doubt upon some thing weather to do or not, at that time I always help them and give advise. If we have doubt upon something we have to ask to our friend or at least inform to any one whom you want as they will provide you guide line .
@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
24 Jul 10
Okey well i do give advice to my dear friend.just as long as they need in life.advice can leads to a great life too.
@gkid117 (11)
• United States
23 Jul 10
Yes I do most of the time when they need help with girls or family problems i am there to help. My friends also give me advice so it's like a ying yang thing.
