Not as exciting........

United States
July 22, 2010 6:23pm CST
I love my fiancé with a burning passion, but something about today just seems so blah! I've noticed he's a little predictable... which isn't bad! But I do like a little excitement. I did some pretty sexy stuff for him to maybe get his heart jumping, you know, but he doesn't seem to do that stuff for me. I'm not so upset about that - but anything spontaneous... it's like... I'm not sure. We just seem like a boring couple now. What can I do to spice up our love life? What's worked for YOU in your love life that brings memories?
3 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
29 Jul 10
Hi there. I can't help you with your problem because where in the same shoe. I was thinking something that will bring back the spice that we had before but i'm having a hard time to execute my ideas. I know the love is still their and i only need to boost that love. It needs changes. I had a conversation with elders and they said that time will come that you and your partner become friends than a lover.
• Portugal
24 Jul 10
sassy girl - girl and boy almost kiss?
i think you should talk with him and tell him that you want to do different things^^ to change a bit your love life and what does he think about it^^ if he sees that is important for you for sure he will want that also. when we are with someone is to make that person happy so to make you happy he will do what takes ^^ also he will like it too for sure^^ he loves to be with you so risk and talk with him and tell him what you want^^ he will listen and sure your relationship will be better^^
• United States
24 Jul 10
Thanks! He's a routinely man, though. We have fun and stuff... but it's always hard to bring up. I know men have their pride thing and don't like to be predictable, but... I hope talking helps. I'll try it. :D Thanks!
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
well, my fiance's just like yours. he is so predictable and he don't do surprises. if he says he won't be coming, he's not. which i find a little bit boring and disappointing sometimes. but i can't do anything about it either. so if he's not the surprising type and i am the opposite, to make the relationships worth while i do what he don't. i always make surprises for him. i cook food for him, visit him in his place, buy him his favorites, and a lot of stuffs even sexy stuffs too. haha. and to add a bit color to our relationship when we have enough time and budget, we do the things we never did or usually do. it brings excitement and fun. maybe you should do that sometimes too. it could be what you are looking for. anyway good luck and happy mylotting!