i got my best friend's sister pregnant !!!! plz help
@ObeyedMoDz4LiFe (2)
Canada
July 22, 2010 7:17pm CST
I know u guys r wondering why in the world would i have "it" with my friends sister is because she is hot as the sun. OK this is what happened so I was chillin with my friend and him and my other friend Kevin where going out to this club downtown so said that i whould chill with his 23 year old sister and he was kind of worried that i might try to pull somthin but he just told me no funny business so i was like " Naw man ur sister is fine" and he left with Kev. Then will i was their i was watchin some ESPN and she sat down next to me and she started to touch my hands and thats were everything went crazy and we had a few drinks and we had "it". Then about 5 weeks later she texts me and says she is pregnant with my child and i dont want his brother to know or else we will never be friends again. So what should i do ? PLZ HELP
3 responses
@jaesine (16)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
If you value your friendship with your best friend, tell him. Of all people, he should be the one to know your problems, because he is your best friend! Don't be afraid. You did that, so face that! First, tell him about your problem. If he gets violent, just try to calm him down and never let him go unless you've talked to him heart-to-heart, man-to-man. The persons that you must think is not yourself, but your friend, the girl you impregnated, and your baby. Of course, she is his sister, so expect that he'd definitely suggest or even try to compel you to do something for the benefit of his sister and your baby. He might even ask you to marry his sister, so be prepared. But it's still your decision, not theirs. And I think you're already on the right age and right mind to decide on your own, what's best for the people around you.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
Be a man, not a guy. In the first place, you should have thought of the consequence before you did it with her. I am not saying that marriage is an option right away, but at least be a man - a responsible man. Talk to your friend and tell him the truth. Of course, he will be shocked that's expected to happen and you should accept it. Do not expect that he will laugh with what happened to you and his sister. If you cannot tell it alone, then ask for his sister's to support you on telling him. Besides, you both had a stupid mistake. Face the consequences and be a man. If not for the girl then at least for the baby.
Again, marriage is not an option especially if no feeling is involved. Let time tell that marriage can be done to both of you. What matters now is the baby, if that is really yours.
...Kidding aside, yes just be responsible.
Do not delay talking to your friend because you cannot hide the pregnancy. Delaying will just lead to a worse scenario. Face it!
...Kidding aside, yes just be responsible.
Do not delay talking to your friend because you cannot hide the pregnancy. Delaying will just lead to a worse scenario. Face it! 
@astreadido (608)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
Well, her brother will know about the pregnancy anyway. Delaying in telling him will only make it much worse. Both of you may not have planned to do it but you did it anyway with your full consent. So, face the situation and better prepare for your incoming responsibilities. The earlier, the better. Fatherhood is a huge deal but I hope you realize soon that having a child is a joy and blessing. My advance congratulations!
