how can you identify if the person are your perfect mate?
By meshezabel
@meshezabel (14)
Philippines
4 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
I think you are referring about soulmates. Well, i dont believe in soulmates. I dont believe that God prepared someone for each of us already and that we should end up with that person. I believe that being in a relationship, is a choice. It is our choice to be with that person and it is also our choice to be the right person for the one we love.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 10
This is really an interesting topic of discussion
Everybody will wonder if the person that they met which make them
feel different - 'heart pumping' is the ONE perfect for them! I
think there is some special 'knowing', 'adrenalin rush'.. heart pumping
experience, some completeness feeling like as if you have found your
'lost rib' kind of feeling as a sign that he/she is the right one.
Anyway, to know whether that person is the perfect mate or not, it
really take time to share and understand each other better. Do both
your character complement each other, have the same vision and dream
to make life on this earth a heaven.... Only time and tides can tell
Chhers and happy myLotting..
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
There is no perfect for each other, the feeling might be perfect though but people are different. No matter how you love someone there are times you will see their flaws and it is your decision if you will continue having a relationship with him or her. Another, if you are being okay no matter how you realized he or she is not perfect for you, you choose to stay because you love him or her and you accepted no matter who he or she is.If that person can make you happy you will think that he is the perfect one, but when problem arises you change your mind and find someone who can make you happy again. So we can't really identified. If love never fades then maybe that is perfect feeling, but being a perfect mate, you can only describe it on your own experience.
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