Do you get nervous moving to a new place or on meeting strangers?
By alienstar
@alienstar (5142)
India
July 24, 2010 5:37am CST
When i was young, i always wanted to be in a crowd and was very much interested in leading my friends as i wanted to be recognized all the time and this feeling is never gone in me as is till the same.I love going to new places and don't get nervous at all meeting new people or going to a new place.There are many people in this world who really get nervous in going to anew place or even on meeting strangers? what is your view on this?
7 responses
@appygudu (35)
• India
24 Jul 10
Yes i get nervous in meeting new people. I find it difficult to get along with others easily. I feel shy, hasitated, nervous at the same time. Sometimes I start sweating like anything while meeting others. I take too much time in making new friends. That's the reason that i have less number of friends.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
24 Jul 10
Most of them have this nervousness within themselves and i feel the do take some time to take out this isn't it? but in your case, you seems to be extra careful in choosing your friends also and maybe this is good in some cases and bad in other cases.Having a group of friends always help you when you are bored in life and having less friends sometimes helps you in keeping steady relationship with them as the number is less
@appygudu (35)
• India
24 Jul 10
I do feel more comfortable alone, as all of my friends are selfish and you can't trust any of them. All are chatter box, I love to be alone because people approaches to me only when they need help and leave me after that, which is so painful. So this is the reason I feel nervous meeting with others.
@westbird321 (232)
• India
30 Jul 10
Me too i love going to new places and new restaurant to eat... also i don't nervous meeting new people. For me its normal. Till now in my life i have moved to or went to many new places and met many new people. I m enough confident with myself.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
30 Jul 10
You are right as it is normal meeting new people and moving into new place and all isn't it? but for most of them it is not that easy as you said here as also you can see for all those comments here in this thread which does show that many people have this nervousnes in them regarding this.In my case, i get more confident in such new places or in meeting new people
@med889 (5941)
•
24 Jul 10
I do and sometimes I even hate it, because the more you understand the use of it the more you may feel than this is not very important also.I love traveling though and meeting with new cultures but some times you are just too bored and want to stay differently.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
24 Jul 10
It seems you have dual character and maybe sometimes you will also struggle in taking a firm decision isn't it? i am crazy about traveling as i just love it and the excitement of meeting people all around the world and knowing their culture is just exciting for me.I love to travel a lot if provided with money
@alienstar (5142)
• India
24 Jul 10
I think most of them will feel this way for sure as once you get to know somebody, it is really easy to understand them later on isn't it? but initially many people do get nervous on meeting new people in their life and also they get nervous in moving out to a new unknown place.These kind of people are many in number in this world and the do take time in adjusting to know the place or even the people around
@krnavtr (285)
• India
27 Jul 10
We get nervous when we reach to the place where we had never visited before. We don't know where to go,whom to talk and what to do for the first time.Like wise when we meet the stranger for the first time,i feel scared what would he say,whether he is lieing or telling the fact, we get nervous like we shiver while talking and we feel very shy to face her or him.To be frank i don't like meeting strangers which the result shows very bad.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
30 Jul 10
New place and new people are always difficult for most of them as they do take time to get adjusted to this new things in life.Sometimes it is also better not to get so close to any new people as these days strangers are dangerous.But there are some people who are very good at judging people who are good as it is not that easy for others to judge them
@phoenix867 (182)
• India
30 Jul 10
Yes,I get nervous while meeting a new people.I really can't face them or talk to them.I don't talk too much with new people.Most of the time I feel nervous,I swat and I become read but once I know them then all the time I will make them laugh.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
30 Jul 10
Actually i don't think you have to sweat looking at new people as the are also humans and since you are seeing them for the first time you get little anxious in knowing that person that's all.As you have told here, you will get on well with that person with time isn't it? so, it is all time which settles down you to newer things in life
