Is your boyfriend not sweet? / myLot

Philippines

July 24, 2010 8:23am CST

on every relationship there are certain challenges that both lover face. One of the most common thing that I heard are complaints from girls who have BF who are not being thoughtful or mindful on special occasions. Do you have an issue on this? Is it right that the girl must initiate the sweetness character?

3 responses

sweetloveforeve

@sweetloveforeve (13120)

• Portugal

24 Jul 10

well i think that both the boy and the girl must be sweet. with me when a guy likes me he says ohh i love you and things like that and when i decide to care for them too is like they stop caring that much. i hate that. why guys cant say they care and show it always? just a few guys do that. is always like girls care more than them :( so no i dont think should be the girl initiating to be sweet guys must also be sweet and care for each other or else the relationship cant work.

not sweet

akiadranem

@akiadranem (403)

• Philippines

24 Jul 10

I would also like to contribute to this discussion that girls, do like to be wooed (do we still use that word in modern times?). We like our boyfriends/husbands to be thoughtful and sweet at times but we are NOT supposed to expect them to be like that ALL the time, some are not even just a little. Because guys are guys. We wouldn't love them if they were otherwise. *winks*

@juicekodai (1121)

• Philippines

24 Jul 10

yeah.. he isnt sweet... sometimes i would feel mistreated... but still i love him... he loves romantic movies but he is not romantic himself.. i wish he could get ideas from those movies he watch though...