what would you do if the guy you love say he be with you but,,,
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
July 24, 2010 6:00pm CST
hey guys^^ what would you do if the guy or girl you love says he be with you but will still be with other girls or be with other guys in case of girls. would you guys accept this just to be with your love? about me i wouldnt^^
6 responses
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
25 Jul 10
Hi sweetloveforever, if you love someone and they are with someone else, it is clear that they do not love you the same way you love them. At least the person lets you know that they do not want to be exclusive and then you can decide. In that case the person will be honest and not cheating. If the person does not let you know that they are seeing someone else then they are cheating and the question becomes, do you want to stay with a cheat even if you love him/her? Like you, i would not want to be in a relationship like.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
25 Jul 10
yes the person is honest you are right and just accepts who wants but i mean some people accept it bcs are obsessed in love and do all just to be with that person and i think we must not humiliate ourselves that way.
@mgates (13)
• United States
25 Jul 10
If they just said they loved you and wanted no relationship and I felt the same way then it would be ok. If one of you wanted a relationship then I don't think it would work. Pulling the heart strings like that can damage you. Since there is many kinds of love, it depends on what the total situation is.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
25 Jul 10
i understand what you mean but i guess is sad to see the guy you love with other girl. i prefer dont be with the guy bcs if he loved me he wouldnt need other girls right? thats at least the way i feel about things^^ even if was hard if he wanted other girls is bcs he doesnt really care for me and im just one more he can have fun with so i wouldnt accept.
I would want to be with somebody whom I can call my own and not somebody who's owned by somebody else. 
@LBKing2584 (84)
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25 Jul 10
it really comes down to wht the situation between you guys is if he or she is your girl or guy and you want exclusive then no way that is okay but if you are talking about the fact that you guys are dating and are open to talk to others then you have to look at yourself and see what it is that you are looking for out of the situation and make the best decsion for yourself
@koditza (235)
• Germany
25 Jul 10
If he says that, then I must say that this is not true love. If he loves you, then he doesn't need to be with other girls - that means he is still searching for 'the one' and thinks that his current lover isn't good enough. As far as I am concerned, I wouldn't agree with this - if he told me that, I would break up with him right away. It would hurt a lot, but it would hurt even more to be with him and see him on the street with other girls or telling me that he's going to a date.
