torn between two lovers...
By shevalicious
@shevalicious (11)
Saudi Arabia
July 25, 2010 11:18am CST
I am happily in the bliss of the love, but sad to say I have this ordeal to choose between two. It makes one happy that someone adores you. It makes your day right and it inspires you. I can say that being in love is one of the best thing in the world. Being in the arms of the right one is near to being perfect. But for me, I wonder whose arms would I like to be.
You see, I have two lovers. It's not that I'm cheating on them, but I'm enjoying both their company. I'm in a state of choosing who's who. I love them both, and they make me happy in their own different ways. I don't want to hurt them and I don't want to let them expect for nothing. The least I could offer them is to choose. But selfish of me, I don't want to loose both of them. I know it's not right. Some of my friends say that insisting on keeping them both will one way or another end up losing them both. I don't want that to happen. Certainly not. So, here I am, digging my unfathomable thoughts in choosing the perfect one. I believe that each person is created for one match only. But God help me, because I am torn between two lovers....
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7 responses
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
28 Jul 10
shevalicious,
This is the same question where one would ask - how do you know you chosen the right job or career?
What are the chances, in this age of globalization, where your first job becomes your career and you work until you retire, like Japanese companies back in the olden days as they termed it life-time employment?
Why are you even asking 'if this guy or, that guy is right?' when you haven't got any clue for what you are seeking and when you haven't got into a real relationship with either man?
I'd say: "Don't ask if it's right - ask if there's real love."
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
26 Jul 10
well sheva i understand you are confused bcs both are sweet and caring to you and make you happy but is right what your friends say if you take too long choosing between both you might lose them :( i think you must spend a time without see both of them and think who is the one you miss more. who you miss more is the right one for you. distance helps in finding out love so do that. talk with them and tell them that for awhile you cant see them bcs you need time to think how much they mean to you. they will wait bcs both love you but dont see them for few days and see each of them you miss more^^ wish it helps you^^
@shevalicious (11)
• Saudi Arabia
28 Jul 10
and now, i lose both of them:(, so sad but i need to accept it,.
@lilangelspreschool (1129)
• United States
26 Jul 10
I went through this too and it's true that you will lose them both if you don't choose one soon. Here's the thing... The way I knew which one was right for me is one of them went away for a vacation and the other one was there with me. The whole time I was in the one's arms I was missing and thinking about the other guy. I was crying and miserable, even though I had one of them with me I felt empty. 
Then and there, I knew which one was the one for me. The one I couldn't live without. So, when he got back I realized he was the one for me and now we have been together for 6 years, married for 5 years and we have 3 children together 
So, I chose the right one for me. Basically, just choose the one that you cannot live without =) Good Luck!
Then and there, I knew which one was the one for me. The one I couldn't live without. So, when he got back I realized he was the one for me and now we have been together for 6 years, married for 5 years and we have 3 children together
So, I chose the right one for me. Basically, just choose the one that you cannot live without =) Good Luck!
@harishramasamy (35)
•
25 Jul 10
Try this... Just don speak with both of them for a entire day...The one whom you will love to meet or make a call at the end of the day is the one you love the most:))
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
25 Jul 10
I think you should ask yourself who would you really miss if you lost them? Maybe both are lacking something? No one is ever perfect so they will always lack something but sometimes you don't want to lost that person for whatever they are lacking. Good luck.
