She Thinks My Hubby is A GAY?
By eurekafemme
@eurekafemme (5876)
Philippines
July 26, 2010 1:50pm CST
I accidentally opened my husband's email ad. In a nutshell, I was able to see everything. What surprised me the most was when this woman from his past ended her mail with this:
teka musta na nga pala yung other side of you? well i hope not to see you don in woman's attire. tiis tiis muna...lmao [b](Wait how about the other side of you? well i hope not to see you don in a woman's attire. Be patient.... lmao)
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Is there something she knows that I don't???
5 responses
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
27 Jul 10
I think you are reading too much between the lines.
If you have the courage and guts, it would be better to confront your hubby and ask him the truth about it. (BTW, it was not fair on your part to open his private mail, if he does not open yours)
If you have the courage and guts, it would be better to confront your hubby and ask him the truth about it. (BTW, it was not fair on your part to open his private mail, if he does not open yours)@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I did not open his email in purpose. He left it without logging out, but yup, it is same as opening it because I have read it....:-(
I had confronted him about this. Not the letter, though, but the thought that he is gay, only in a joking manner. Well, he did not answer me nor at least laughed it off. I was expecting that he'd either deny it or jokingly admit it. But he was offended. I will not bother ask him again even if I still wanted to. What's the use, dear? We already hav3e so much issues between us. I don't need anymore things to worry about...
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
27 Jul 10
It is good that you realized that you did check his mail, without his knowledge. It does not matter, whether he left his email box, without logging out. Also it is a human nature to know about others and specially, when someone is your life partner.
Please do not bother, if he is a guy or not, as I told you earlier, you are thinking too much about a small issue. Don't make mountain of a mole...........lol!
Whose picture is there in your avatar? Your daughter No.2?
Please do not bother, if he is a guy or not, as I told you earlier, you are thinking too much about a small issue. Don't make mountain of a mole...........lol!
Whose picture is there in your avatar? Your daughter No.2?@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Hey, dear. :-) It doesn't bother me at all. This is nothing compared to the real issues we have. I was just shocked to see that letter from that woman. And of course, I was also curious (I am always curious, that too much of it might kill me one day!LOL) to know if it could be true or not. But, whether I will find out the truth about his gender preference, it doesn't really matter. What for?
Yup, that is Maria Ramses. She doesn't look like me, ei?;-)
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Hi eurekafemme, I wouldn't want to give you any reasons to be suspicious of your husband. But I think it's something you need to talk about. At least to clarify things with your hubby. It could just be some passing joke they were reminiscing. If it concerns you that much, then talk to him. If he laughs it off, then it would be ok. If it's something deeper, then it's a delicate discussion between the two of you. Goodluck.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I had expressed my doubt about his gender preference but in a joking manner because even if there were things about him that were too feminine I don't believe he is gay.However, instead of laughing it off, he took it seriously and just kept quiet. I was expecting a different reaction, of course.
And, now this email. If it is a serious thing then, I 'm not sure how to let him open up to me...
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I told him that just in case there is something he needs to tell me about himself, he doesn't need to feel hesitant because I can accept him for what he is.
I know my husband too much. No one in his friends or his circle would ever dare try to tease him as gay. They respect him that much. However, there were so many instances that at first glance my friends or people from my circle thought that he was gay.
I doubt if he'll ever admit that he is gay, if it is true..:-)
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Well, maybe he got tired of some people teasing him for being a bit effeminate. Adn he got a bit miffed that even you would think that he's gay, when you know he's not. *winks* Tell him to open up to you, but don't pressure him too much. And he'll tell you if it's really serious.
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
well the best thing is to ask him about it. That text is really peculiar.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I did ask him way back in a candid manner almost jokingly if he is gay. Though he knew then that i was just kidding, he was offended and didn't bother to say anything. But some time I just couldn't help thinking that somehow he is more in touch with his feminine side...
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I think the woman knows something about him but refuse to believe it and assumed instead that he was a gay. Women just curve what they hear to something less true when the truth hit them hard and in that woman's case, the truth is sugarcoated to being a gay that's why I don't think your husband is truly gay. It could mean that because the truth is so bad to hear, there was no use of it even though the sugarcoat is removed.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
That woman knows pretty much about my husband. Their relationship is far deeper than mere friendship so it is possible. Only, I don't think if I should agree with you that she just refuses to accept the real thing about my husband. Hell, I'm not going to investigate further.:-)
@trish99 (10)
• United States
26 Jul 10
eurekafemme, I don't know what kind of relationship with your husband is, however if he is a down to earth person I would think this could be a topic you could talk about with him. I would say keep an open mind when talking with him as well as you should as yourself if you really want to know? You have to think about if it would his answer effect you or changing you action to him. Think about it from another aspect, they could have a friendship where they just say crazy things to each other. Is there other emails from her? Do they follow the same thing. It could be a running game or from some school experience she is recalling that does not even matter? You will always be in suspense, unless you ask him. He is going to be the only person that will be able to tell you whats going on. Like I said earlier is the fact that, do you really want the answer no matter what the answer would be?
