Avoiding life's little lessons

@Qaeyious (2357)
United States
July 26, 2010 11:16pm CST
I heard of this happening in spiritual circles but I had trouble believing it. It is when a person needs to be taught a lesson, a teacher will come. So I was waiting for the light rail and while it was pulling up one of those "entertainers" came by. I wasn't in the mood so I went to the first car, expecting him to go into the second car. No such luck. He comes on the first car and with all the seats that are available he sits right in front of me. Then he proceeds to rap the most vile and violent lyrics imaginable. I had just come from a meditation group, and I told the story how I handle the modern gum poppers that are also irritating, but I found a way around it. You see, objects occupy a space, and you can meditate on the so ace an object occupies. Sounds are the same way - sounds are actually objects that occupy the so ace of silence. All sounds have the "space," silence, that it also occupies, and I am usually able to focus on that. With this guy I was probably one third successful. OK lesson learned. Now go away. And he did eventually. Anyone want to share a lesson?
2 responses
30 Jul 10
Wow Qaeyious, what a wonderful little tale, yes, I don't know whether I could have been so calm and tolerant of the vile rapper, but you are right, concentrating on the space he held rather than on him was a very good idea and it is a lesson we should all try to take from your experience.
@Qaeyious (2357)
• United States
31 Jul 10
I thought of a contingent action I could have taken; to start singing "We Shall Overcome -" (a song from the civil rights movement in the US circa 1960)
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
My one and only lesson that I am still struggling to these days is that: Beauty is everywhere. I am supposed to appreciate all people, all their minds, all their characteristics, all their faults, all their hideousness, etc. Now, you teach me differently.
@Qaeyious (2357)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Your aim is way higher than mine currently. Maybe one day my intolerance will turn to acceptance and then to the celebration of All, but I'm at where I'm at. I'm still waiting for the wisdom to know the difference -