Do you share the same hobbies with your lovers?
By pengyachu
@pengyachu (296)
China
July 27, 2010 6:44am CST
People in modern times have become less active and initiative in their affections because of work stress and aesthrtic tiredness.There may be break beween boyfriends and girlfriends or couples since they have lacked of communication for long.
Check your affections,do you still have the same hobbies and ropics?Those who have rich experiences are welcomed to share with us.
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14 responses
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 10
I and my husband do have same interest. Both of us love bowling,
movies and traveling. There are some differences too. However,
we need to try to accommodate each other when the differences
arises. If we have the same hobbies, it will make us understand
each other better, same 'rhythm'. However, he do not like to go
for clubbing, whereby I like. Since we have family, we tend to
go to places where more family orientated like theme park, movies,
weekend getaway whick all of us can have fun together
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@pengyachu (296)
• China
28 Jul 10
Hi Iriene88,
Thanks for your response.I wish you and your husband love forever.
In my life,the same hobbies are not the most important,but we should touch heart each other forver.To be honest,i just know we love each other and these is the point.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 10
We do have same hobbies like traveling, movies and sudoku.
In actual fact I am the one who love Sudoku. Since she saw me
doing it, she also accompany me and now both of us will solve
the Sudoku puzzle every evening during weekdays. We challenge
each other to see who have completed the puzzle first 
We seems to discover more and more hobbies together.
We seems to discover more and more hobbies together.@pengyachu (296)
• China
28 Jul 10
Thank you for your response.Take interest in her hobbies.It's wonderful if you were brought together by common interests,but step outside the box and really make an effort to learn more about her long tern hobbies.It could mean qcquiring an appreciation for fashion or even foreign films,whatever it may be,it will show you care and she will think you are the greatest.
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
27 Jul 10
I do not have all the same interests as my husband,as he likes shooting and things todo with war,where as i am not into those at all.I like to make cards,but he do not like that.We both however like animals,aswell as the same sort of programs on the tv.I think that it is good to enjoy some interests aswell as have your own interests.We also have our interests when it comes to doing things on the internet, he likes games where as i like doing sites where you can earn from.
@pengyachu (296)
• China
28 Jul 10
Hi jugsjugs,thanks for your response.
I think your husband is a man like adventure.
In my opinion,it's impossible and unnecessary for couplis to have all the same habits.For me,I have just a lottle same hobbies with my wife.However,we all support each other most of time.She like cooking,i prepare the raw material for her.She like watching TV ,I enjoy some popular ones selectively with her to relax myself.Now we have the most important same habit in our whole life,caring our little lovely baby,which all of the couples will share some day.
@trohichko (197)
• Bulgaria
28 Jul 10
No, I don't. I have been with my girl for almost five years and I can assure you that hobbies have little to do with relationships. I am interested in computer science and technology whereas she is interested in languages and she can't stand computers. This does not mean that we do not love each other, we respect each other's hobbies and we learn from them. We help each other if there is need and the difference in hobbies has never meant difficulties in communication.
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
My girl and I share the same hobbies because we share the same interests. 
We both like reading, watching movies, and singing. And we never fail to do those together at least twice a week. It bonds us and strengthens our friendship which makes our relationship stronger. 
We both like reading, watching movies, and singing. And we never fail to do those together at least twice a week. It bonds us and strengthens our friendship which makes our relationship stronger. @pengyachu (296)
• China
28 Jul 10
Hi jerikjames,thanks for your response.
Of course,common hobbies is very important.Maintaining a relationship with a woman can,at times,be difficult to achieve.It's not uncommon for a man to become complacent after a period of time and we lose sight of the little things than can accentuate the relationship we are in.Maybe you are in a situation now and want to know,"How can i keep my girlfriend happy?"If this sounds like you,then please read on and discover some simple tips that will help you keep the woman in your life happy.
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 10
In my opinion, it's impossible and unnecessary for couples to have all the same habits.
First, everyone has a wide range of hobbies, which leads that it's hard for us to find the one who shares of the habits with us absolutely.
It can also explain why we have different social circles at different aspects, and why we have made most of our friends at different occasions or for different causes.
So, it's lucky enough for us to own some same hobbies with our lovers.
@attente (986)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I don't have a boyfriend now. But as far as I can remember, my love and I share the same hobbies: traveling, children, music, food tripping! I think you really have to share some common things that would connect the two of you.. But also, you also have to these things that are not common to the two of you.. With that, you can share that to the other party and you have something to talk to, asking and answering part. that would be exciting and fun. be blessed! :)
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
27 Jul 10
My husband and I share some of the same hobbies. We are both interested in travelling and I am really happy about that, because it is very important to me to visit many different parts of the world. In two months we are going to travel around in Europe together and I am really excited about that. I look forward to getting a lot of new experiences and I look forward to sharing all those things with my husband. We also share other hobbies for instanse computers, reading and animals.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
For me not but we still in a relation now it is not matter the important is understanding and patient.
@Steinway (307)
• United States
28 Jul 10
I do not share the same hobbies as my boyfriend does. He likes Playstation and Ninetendo, whereas I'm not a big game person. I like movies, but I'm not into the movie thing as much as he is. We both like music, except I like to play music with my piano. And, sometimes, depending on how long I've been practicing on something, he does not like it...lol
@tayrone09 (47)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
yes.. we both love playing badminton.. also we love eating at new resto.. trying new foods.. we love doing new things together.. or even simple things ... just to be together.. it makes our relationship deeper, and our bond stronger... do things with your partner for me is like you are always on cloud 9. always excited, fun and special... I love that feeling..
@captain534 (177)
• India
28 Jul 10
No I don't have habit of sharing same hobbies with my lover because different people have different feeling where as my hobbies is stamps collection and my lovers love reading religious book.
@lakhan4462 (15)
• India
28 Jul 10
not often ,as in the modern world it is really difficult to know what is running inside a girl's mind ,its afterall a boyfriends guess which his inner hearts tells do or react at that time ."A SMALL BULB GLOWING IN A DARK ROOM IS SAME AS A STAR TWINKLING IN THE DARK SKY" ITS HOW U TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
