why do boys gets attracted to a girl...and why girl doesn't do the vice versa???

It should work both ways. If it doesn't then there is something wrong. Men should be attracted to women just as much as women should be attracted to men. If only one person is attracted to the other, then that is a relationship that won't work out.

They are also attracted but they do nothin about it. The main reason is the shyness which is high in any girl. Moreover they feel that it should be the boy who must took initiative. But now a days even girls are taking initiative if they are attracted.

Well its just that boys are more expressive ..lol Actually, i dont think that girls dont get attracted to guys but they do but dont show it. It may be because girls are a bit shy to express it. And also it is not considered good if a girl initiates the things with boy. But there are always some indications by which you can know whether she is attracted to you or not. Anyways thanks for this discussion. take care :)

Nowadays in my area, most girls give much attention towards boys, even those in high school. Young girls have bf already so I think boys got pretty much attention and attraction from girls.

Boys and girls are the same. When they are attracted to each others, some will talk about it in their groupies. That's how most things happened. It's just that boys are more revealing in their interest towards the girls and it's a nature as well girls know how to hide it.

Its almost similar,boys gets attracted to a girl and too girls gets attracted towards boys.Boy gets attracted to a girl by looking at her inner and outer beauty,walking style and the way she expresses to other.where as its vice-versa with girls too.For the first time the way we fall in love will be almost same.

abj surely you have studied in school about hormones and boys in puberty. If boy's were not ever attracted to girls the human race would dwindle. The attraction is ensure we continue getting married and raising families. Girls do get attracted to boys too but they just show it differently. Maybe your own hormones are just starting to make you think about and like girls, just wait you will meet one girl who will make your heart go pitty pat and you will want to take her out. good lu ck and God bless.

You don't have a clue dude. In reality girls get attracted the boys and believe it or not more than how boys get attracted to girls. The problem is that most girls do not show their feelings and most of them are afraid to. A man will more likely to show his feelings and as a result make it seems that girls are not attracted. I remember my ex girlfriend. She loved me from over 3 years ago, and the time she admitted to it is when i actually went to her and told her i love her. She was so amazed. But I am just trying to show you, that is the way most girls are. WHO IS WITH ME?

Both straight man and woman attract. However, women are not expressive with their feelings especially if without security. But in some cases women who have aggressive character could tell guys about their feeling but expect that they could be defensive. Women love most the security of theirs not the security of their lovers.

Boys gets attracted to a girl and that's vice versa. Maybe for girls it's not that obvious because as much as possible we want it to be secret. Girls are not so expressive with their feelings since we are afraid of criticism and we are shy because that guy might hate us if they will know about our feelings. There are some people like you who rarely falls in love with opposite gender while there are also personality who fells in love quickly. Each of us are unique, that's why sometimes girls and boys don't understand each other because of our unique personality.

It's not boys the only one getting attracted with girls. Even girls get attracted with boys. The difference is boys let it out from the heart. The speak their mind out whereas girls won't admit that she is attracted with a guy. I think there is also this notion that girls wait for boys to confess what they feel so they hold back. Boys on the other hand are open and let the feelings out. The statement that boys are attracted with girls is because of guys letting out their feeling.

It goes both ways. Girls have less testosterone so they have a lower you-know-what drive so that's why girls will generally not be as interested as boys. This is just a generalisation though so it's also an individual thing.

It happens with almost all the people of this world.Guys get attracted towards girls because girls are very soever , they are very innocent.Some guys likes the personality of girls. They are kind hearted etc.Girls are very much concern about themselves. They do not get into the relation so soon.They read a person well, then if they like the personality then only they proceed. You are also attracted towards a girl for the first time right.!It means that you have liked some one now.You are attracted because you liked her nature,may be she is beauty with brilliant.

Girls are also attracted to boys, but we don't show much. Because we fear that if we show boys might take us wrong and might think how fast this girl is. So we take time to show the feelings out to boy we got attracted. Also there is some guy if they get girls proposing them then they started flying and thinks whoever has proposed him is cheap which is very wrong. so we don't show out. In fact we understand the feelings of others but not boys since they never grow up and take things easily.

Girls get attracted to boys too. But you are right, most often than not, girls are generally discreet about that attraction. Girls are naturally brought up to be demure and more reserved than the boys. Boys are more straightforward, thus, they show their attraction to the girls they like. But there are also girls who speak their minds and tell directly to the boys they are attracted to the way they feel.