when someone flirts with your BF
By meeksilent
@meeksilent (514)
Philippines
July 28, 2010 7:18am CST
Have you ever experenced when other girls tend to flirt with your bF? How do you deal with this? If ever your BF will flirt back is it his fault for responding back or the girl's mistake for making the first move? In my opinion I would not interupt any communication that my bf may have to another girl who flirts him coz this is a test of how much ur bf love u.
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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30 Jul 10
I think it’s cute when someone hits on my partner because he either doesn’t realise that’s what’s happening, or gets really embarrassed. I trust him completely and it’s nice that he’s getting the compliment of someone finding him attractive. He has low self-esteem, so I think it’s good for him. I know he’d never betray my trust.
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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2 Aug 10
He never flirts back, which is good and he always tells me when someone tries to flirt with him. He’s so embarrassed by it all, bless him. He’s a good guy.
@meeksilent (514)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Good thing you fully trust him but you should always be on the look. Guys are really unpredictable, they might overrule ur trust and take advantage on it, knowing that you have full confidence that he may not hurt your feelings.
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@unseenzy (171)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
Before, I was like a paranoid freak every time other ladies flirt with my bf. I hate it even just in messages. You know that feeling when you are together then other ladies keep on bugging him. Well I hate those moments. Most especially if my bf flirts back. But eventually, I learned to get over it. I tried to look at the positive side like I'm lucky that he chose me over those ladies. And somehow, we learned to trust each other and it made our relationship stronger. Indeed it was a test, both to me and to him... helpful test! :)
@meeksilent (514)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
I'm also paranoid too knowing that we are miles apart its quite frustrating not knowing where he is at the moment I called him. But I make it to thae point that I observe any sign or changes on how he respond to me. If there is a hint that he's already bored or uninterested with me, then its a clue that he may be hooked to another girl.
@meeksilent (514)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
that's cool at least he's being honest makes you trust your bf. :)
@margeyukiko (16)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
honestly, i HATE flirts. if that girl is flirting to my bf I'll flirt too to my bf to be fair and square then after which i'll drag my bf and kiss him in front of her so that she'll know that his MINE.
@margeyukiko (16)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
honestly, i HATE flirts. so if that girl will flirt to my boyfriend I'll flirt too to my boyfriend to be fair and square and after which I'll confront that girl and ask her that why is he flirting with my boy friend? do you know that he has a girl friend. then after which i''ll drag my bf and kiss him in front to that girl so she'll know his MINE.
@justdroppingby (296)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
It happens to me, but I just laugh it off... I guess I'm just secure with the status of our relationship. I think it's also good for said BF's vanity (and self-esteem) that other girls are still interested in him...I know I'm flattered and feel sexy even when hot-looking guys still flirt at me. But I draw the line at harmless flirting. Doing anything more concrete besides that (ie, dropping pickup lines, exchanging phone numbers, going on a date etc) is a big no-no. It can not only complicate your relationship and erupt into bigger trouble later, it's a big disrespect to and betrayal of trust of your partner.
