Let my mother go home or no?
By shalynwang
@shalynwang (29)
China
July 28, 2010 11:07pm CST
I have a very bitter pill choose.
The fact is as follow:
I have a two years old baby,and my husband's famliy can't help me take care of my baby.So at begining,I take care of him by myself.But I get the fidets everyday,because we didn't have enough money and I just finish school several years.I really want to work.So at last my mother help me take care.But at the same time,she carried my brother's son.And we(I,my husband,my son,my mother and my brother's son) lived together.My mother is a peasant and didn't teach the children at all.My brother's son is a very un-progress and everyday let us very headache.So they are so many problems in this famliy now.I and my mother are all very painful.So my mother always want to go home.If she go home,the painful isn't existed.But along with going home,I can't job no more.And we have a very wobble life now in economy.So now I am very confused for that.
I really don't know how to choose.Let my mother go home and perish the painful everyday;or let her stay and go to have job and continue the jumbled life?
Who can tell me?Or give me some opinion or suggestion?Thank you in advance.
3 responses
@shalynwang (29)
• China
29 Jul 10
Oh,there have many others reasons.I can't say it one time.My husband also confuse for us.We have to go one single-step then bargain on sth.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
29 Jul 10
I am sorry to know that. Even then in my opinion, I would have send my mother to where ever she feels like to go I am in trouble. If she is happy in home without any pain I will be happy too. As she had been taken lots of pain to bring ourselves up to the society I wont let her to pain any more, whatever my condition maybe.
@shalynwang (29)
• China
29 Jul 10
But if my mother go home,my brother'son can't be educated by anybody.and that means he will not become a useful person.He is the most important person for my mother.My mother has not anybody to entrust,and brother is also a un-useful person.If she go home,she will all become very happiness,I will send her home persue justice with no turing back.But that didn't take any benefit,and at the same time she is very useful for me now.This is the really contradiction for me....
@george000 (166)
• India
29 Jul 10
Let her stay and go to have a job because if we were depending upon others. In any cases if they won't satisfy they ask to leave from them and we will not have a place to stand also and nothing to eat. If we have some thing than we will be on our own feet and we will not have worries and concerned about others.
