Hey..... Best response???

@Renhard (3471)
Jamaica
July 28, 2010 11:48pm CST
So i have just been going over my old post and wanting to give a best response. But i buck up on one problem on the way. How do you go about selecting a best response if you have a lot of responses to that particular discussion, and i mean like over 50 responses. How do you do it?
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@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
29 Jul 10
You can either give a best responce to... a. The witties answer b. The longest answer c. The most useful answer d. The first answer (points for being first) If you're really really unsure...flip a coin
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
You are so much of a joker. I have never given solely for the first answer before. I have given or both longest and usefulness though. By the way i don't understand what you mean by witties answer. Please explain.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
I still don't know what you mean by witty. Does it mean funny?
• New Zealand
29 Jul 10
woops! Spelling mistake... Meant to say "The most Witty Answer"
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
29 Jul 10
I reread every post and jot the ones that I think are the best and eliminate till there is one left. I want to give the honor to the one that deserves it.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
30 Jul 10
I know. It's a lot of work. How about if as we read the different replies we make a note on excellent responses and so later we only have to reread a few responses? Maybe that might make things easier.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
When you say make a note do you mean on paper, or to only rate them (the thing side of their responses)?
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 Jul 10
You are good. Not even good. You are great. I can't believe you would actually read back through all those post.
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• India
29 Jul 10
I always go for cool and stylish responses. Witty answers are a favorites of mine and when i get one i automatically give them a best response. Judging by the quality of that particular response i give that a best response.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
I am sure that if i gave a best response before i reach my 30 response, I would not have get as much response as i did. Some people get turn off when they see that the best response has already been giving. So i wasn't going to take that chance. So what if you never choose the response early. Do you plan to read all those responses over again, just to grasp what they are saying so you can give a best response?
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• Singapore
29 Jul 10
You can wait for a week or so before giving out the BR. I had even given some as late as one month later because it was very active for quite a while. I would read back all the responses and choose one that strkes a chord with me. The idea that people get turned off after having seen the BR? Surely that's not true. We are earning for our participation, and if the topic is interesting surely it's worth replying to?
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
But if you get a best response. The person would benefit more. So I think it turns some people off. So you are telling me that you would actually go back through all those responses. You are really good.
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Well if it is taking you a hard time choosing, then don't choose.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
But i think that will just give me a bad representation. People soon start to stop like me or such, if you understand what I am saying.
@ashton77 (292)
• India
29 Jul 10
You can do it by choosing one of the two ways. The first is whether you want to do it honestly or not which is the harder way and the other one is trying to give an example of your liking for someone out of courtesy. In the second one, it is very simple. You need to find someone whom you know and then give him because he/she happens to be your friend. The first one is by reading every response and giving it to the response that you think deserves it. It is the harder way. The choice is in your hand. Happy mylotting
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Wow this is such a hard choice, but i really don't like to be unfair. I really don't want to give it to a friend solely because he/she is my friend. They have to earn it to get it. The way that I am talking makes it seem like i have to go for the harder way at this moment. *sigh*
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Oh my this will take forever to complete now. I cant believe it.
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@ashton77 (292)
• India
29 Jul 10
I think you have no choice at all. Go the harder way, at least you will be proud with your choice.
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@m_perez (506)
• United States
29 Jul 10
I just pick the one I like and answers my question the best. That's all.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Maybe you don't understand what I am saying here. The response that you give should be done to choose your best response. But what if you have a lot of responses like 75 responses. Would you go back through all of those responses just to choose a best response?
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 Jul 10
It seems you like to work so much. I guess i will also have to do that. I know it will take some amount of time. Look like i better get started. Oh well. Hope i finish quick.
@m_perez (506)
• United States
30 Jul 10
Actually I would go through all 75 responses and read them I would also add a comment to each response to make it worth my effort. Although I know you wouldn't have that much time to do that in one day so do it over a certain period of time. I'm sure you wouldn't forget get what people responded in just a short amount of time.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Jul 10
Bottom line is, yes, you have to read the responses totally to give best response. In try to keep it in mind as I work through and I think which might compete for the award so when I come back to give BR i have a bit of an idea already. The person you award BR to gets nothing extra so you could do what may do and skip it completely. I've not seen any members whining because certain people don't award BR. Many forget to do it and then the whole situation gets out of hand.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Jul 10
Calling me a liar is not very friendly is it? Those things did not happen as a result of getting a BR. I often get BR and I assure you, nothing happens. Choosing BR is simply a way of letting the person know that their contribution was the best and most useful to your topic. Try reading the FAQs...specifically "Discussions", down at the bottom of the list are the notes about BR. Also read "How do I Increase My Earnings" in the section headed "Earnings and Payment Information". It says nothing about BR increasing earnings. Your ratings for a category increased simply because you answered in that particular category which happens to be one of your interests. Your star increased because you are participating in discussions and your fellow users have rated you positively. To the best of my knowledge, this is how it works. I am not a liar. I've been able to read the Guidelines, FAQ and TOS...what's stopping you?
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
What do you mean by the person that get awarded the best response doesn't get anything extra? That is a lie. When i got best response. My star increased for one and my ratings for that category (computers) increase if you know what i mean.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
29 Jul 10
some people only go thru the first page, others will go thru all of them - I've heard a few will maybe go the first 3, depends on you, I try to go thru all of them and pick the best one (from those who are still active - unless the best one is redoubtably one that isn't. (maybe they will come back if they get a BR)
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Yes, I have done that, when it is just OBVIOUS that the best response is that person. Its when I have a choice, I'm more likely to award it to the active person rather than the inactive one...
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
I think i am going to have to through all those pages then. I remembered i just gave a best response to a person who only post 6 times in over 3 months. That person I know is no longer active, but to be honest that person deserved that best response so that is why i gave it to that person. Would you have?
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Oh because i thought i was just weird to do so. But you are the same thing although most time you do the opposite.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
29 Jul 10
You've read and replied to all the responses, right? Just pick the one that was most informative, interesting or contributed the most to keeping the discussion interesting.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
29 Jul 10
I you want to be really fair, yes. But if you're short on time you could just choose the first outstanding one you come to. I have tons of "unresolved" discussions where I haven't picked the best response. I keep meaning to, but I can't give them the time they deserve. I should try to do even one every day and eventually would catch up.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Remember the last time i read through those responses was when they were just coming in and to be honest at this present time, I can't really remember about those people specific response. So it looks like i would have to go back through all those responses according to you, right?
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
So that is it then. I am going to have go through them one step at a time. By the do you know any other place to make more money than on mylot. Even by investing?
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@vandana7 (100255)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi renhard, I look for a response that has something new and unique to offer. If there is one response like that then it gets the BR. If there are more than one responses like that, then only I face the problem. Otherwise, most comprehensive response qualifies. As your list of friends increases it becomes a greater dilemma. When two of my good friends give good quality response then I select one that is easier to follow or easier to understand.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
So then that means it still end up with you searching through all of responses before coming to a conclusion of which one to pick. So you would prefer though to give someone who respond to your discussions frequently though?
@vandana7 (100255)
• India
29 Jul 10
No - I am careful enough to check on that one. I give based on the content and suggestions. Of course, I do face the dilemma. But in the end lucid expression and content wins. :)
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
The persons words just have to jump out at you So wait, what if you reach like the twentieth response and that one amazed you greatly, would you continue to look through the rest, 50 more responses? I wonder?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
29 Jul 10
Just go for the one who gave you the best answer, advice or made you laugh the hardest, sweetie. TATA.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
That's the thing. I cant really remember that at all. because i don't usually give bet response right away. It is usually after a couple of weeks or so. So i have no remembrance of who did what.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Yeah that will keep me busy. And wasting me time that i can use to do something else. You know what I will still do that anyway. Hope I finish soon.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
29 Jul 10
Okay, do it this way. Take your time, read all of them again write down the best of them and then you pick one. Enjoy it, that will keep you busy.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
30 Jul 10
I'm a weak discussion starter... so I don't get that much responses...to get tired of reading... so I do select best responses...after leaving the discussion for 2/3 weeks after that, will select one... thanks for sharing... have a great day/night......
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
Its all in the practice, and most times its all in amount of really active friends. You are very lucky. Enjoy it while it lasts.
• Singapore
29 Jul 10
First time you saw a response I'm sure you have an impression whether you like it or not, then when your responses have quieten down, you can skim through quickly and choose one, the one that you have the deepest impression of. Make your decision quickly and swiftly...
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 Jul 10
To tell the truth I am thinking of doing that about now. Because i really dont think i can manage to go through so many posts. that is too hard.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
But wait the thing is that I really cant remember which one did impress me. And the only to find out that is to actually go back through all those responses. Which will take so long.
• Singapore
30 Jul 10
Yeah I know... I was giving out yesterday and had this same problem. We need a lot of patience to re-read. It's ok if you didn't go through all just pick one among some you think are good. It doesn't have to be the BEST, just one of the GOOD ones would be good enough.
@skdhawan (76)
• India
30 Jul 10
try to select the response which covers all the aspects of discussion and has the sound backing of facts
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
So I am asking you would you search through all the post to find that. If you have over 75 responses, would you search all of them.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
But i can't manage to do all that. Oh my, I'm going to die!
• India
31 Jul 10
thats the only way
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Jul 10
hi Renhard trust your intuition as one will always pop out and seem just a bit better than the rest.okay you will have four or five that will all seem really good but then look again as there will be one thing that will stick out in one of those and there it is, your best response one. do not tally too long but trust your judgment instead.I had one that had over one hundred responses and I searched and found the very first answer really was the best of all of them. Trust yourself.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 Jul 10
What did you say. You searched through so much and it turned out the first was the best. That suppose to hurt. It would have hurt me though.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Jul 10
it's very simple really. Just read them over & mark the one u think is the best response to your discussion. Don't know why everyone makes that such a big deal. I also like to do mie in a few days , don't like to get behind w/things. Some people wait for months to mark them. I like to be better organized than that. Good luck in deciding.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
So i you mark it in a few days. Wouldn't that just limit the amount o people who respond. I think people do not like to respond to a certain decisions if the best response has already been given. You understand where, I am getting at?
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
29 Jul 10
How to award a best response? With great difficulty! It hard to do at times because so many replies are equally good. I just go for the one answer which appeals, it doesn’t have to be the longest or the best written one, just the one who I feel answered my question in the best possible way.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Wait you ain't understand me. i am just asking i you would go through over 75 responses or so to award a best response. How do you go about giving responses to that amount of posts.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
29 Jul 10
When I want to find the best response in one of my discussions, I read every response one more time. If there are a lot of responses that might take a long time, but I think that is the best way to find the best response. Sometimes it is very hard to find the best response, because there are several very good and interesting responses. I often choose a response that I have learned something from and a response that helps me see things in a different perspective. I don't always chooose the longest response, I choose the one that that I find most interesting, useful or funny.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
Ok then. Do you think that this is could work? I used to look on the longest conversation. What i mean by that is not a long response, but a long conversation; the person respond, then i respond, then the person and it goes on.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
Hi, Renhard I actually have the same question. I want to mark best responses on my previous discussions too but everytime start, I stop because I couldn't choose between two or more responses. But I have made up my mind to choose a response that somewhat surprised me because it made me think. Of course, I have to to somehow discern that it was a really honest answer. Good luck and have a nice day!
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 Jul 10
Well if i am in that problem where i see that more than one post are equal to the extent where i want to both give them best response. Then i would look at the length of their response. Longer length wins
• Brazil
30 Jul 10
I usually get all the ones I like/find funny/interesting and then... Dart boards DO work.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
30 Jul 10
What you put them in a lottery pot too? It seems like sometimes you throw dices to pick. But question I am really asking is how you going to go through so much post if you have over 75 responses. How you going to pick one through so much.