Is your man your best friend?
By mabey1
@mabey1 (334)
Romania
July 29, 2010 1:54am CST
as i was mylotting i just realised something, or should i say i said it outloud : my husband ,my man s my best friend. its strange how our relationship grew. i know him for a very long time, and there were periods when i really hated him. i should tell you we were classmades, but not highschool sweethearts. we hocked up in college. many who knew us thought our relationship could never work. but still we are here. and durring the proces of being boyfrien-girlfriend we became best friends. fr me is something that came naturly. i hope we are not an isoleted case. is there anyone in the same possition as we are out there? i would really want to know your story to.
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14 responses
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
i feel that there are many couple who don't consider themselves as friends and they are more like partners in life and nothing more. they were not able to develop their relationship to friendship or best buddy. but it should be. but still i see many couple who are able to do so. by the way i am single so i can't share any thing about my own experience.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
31 Jul 10
My guy is my best friend too. We started out as friends.It was and is so easy to talk to him. He fell for me Way before I fell for him. He was patient and finally , finally I fell for him.And now it feels so nature to have him as my best friend.
@funkeyguhl (1743)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
I have known my husband for almost 12 years now. He has been my boyfriend since I was in college. I had a fear before that I will fall out of love but it never happened - not even a day did it happen.
My husband has become my best friend in the sense that I am not afraid to speak my mind with him. We talk about everything and anything. Imagine, we sometimes spend a day not talking and yet we understand each other's standing.
Though, like you, initially, we were always fighting over stuff - petty or not but I guess through time, we were able to understand each other's moods and behavior.
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
You've become bestfriends because you're together almost everyday..my boyfriend too, is my bestfriend, although i have a best girl friend until now, still all that happens to me i tell to my bf, he's a good listener and always comforts me.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
There are times that we are enemy when there is one thing we did not agree,but most of the time we are bestfriends.Known him for a long time.We had a lot of things in common,what I like,he likes it too.We always patch things so that everything will be okay.I do hope that we will be bestfriends forever,cause we all now that sometimes some good things in life never last.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
29 Jul 10
My wife and I have always been best friends. My wife is a wonderful person and I love her very much. We build our live around our family and around trying to be good Christians. Thank God that God sent me my wonderful wife to share my wife with me and to be my best friend.
@xavier_sh (222)
• Nepal
29 Jul 10
Yes, my husband is my best friend I've ever made.He is my love, my life, my guardian, my friend.............. everything for me. He is about 8 years older than me but he understands me well. he taeks care of my necessities and desires. He guides me well if i get confused. He loves me so much and sis worried abut me every time. He is always concerned with mu success. Truly speaking he is the man who made me a perfect lady. He gave me chance to prove myself. he encouraged me to show up my talency to others. so why today I'm well known as a lady who has got a great courage and talency. He never restricted in my progress in spite he is still looking forward to push me up to success. He's really great.Its already 7 years we got married and we have a son of 3 and half years old but still i feel that we've just met and m newly married cause he never made me feel that her is weird of me. Both of us are carrying on our life cart in mutual co-operation.
@arahvma23 (269)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Yeah I think so. He's everything to me: my hubby, my friend, my best friend, my father, my guardian, my baby, my travel buddy, my foodtrip and sport partner, everything! I just love him so much that I don't know what I will become without him in my life. That's why sometimes I get jealous easily, I easily get insecure with other girls, at times I also get a bit possessive. But I know he's always there for me whatever happens because he loves me and he's really a great guy! One big fish caught! :)
@charmlenile (387)
•
29 Jul 10
Wow!like a delicious bowl of fruit salad its made up of different ingredients which when combined make one delicious and satisfying feeling. This may sound corny, but your love really showed me how it is to be totally in love with your best friend and lover and friend and being the man of your dreams. And I wish I had one as good as yours.
@george000 (166)
• India
29 Jul 10
Yes, my man is my best friend because when we first meet from that time only , we were respecting each other . He never jealous and he always cares me when I am going with friend after all he usually call and ask are you fine and all.
@inocentes (78)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
OH yes, my man is my best friend, my lover, my brother, my better half. We have an open communication and i think thats the top secret of having a good relationship with each other. Im at peace being with him
@krnavtr (285)
• India
29 Jul 10
Your relation would have worked naturally because you two were school mates. Mine is a very different one. We don't know each other. I joined person.com where we chatted the whole night. In the first night we shared about our hobbies, haha in fact a bit of introductions. I really felt different when i chatted with him. The next night we were much more closer. That happen for around more then one week. Then i don't know what happened to me, feeling grew for him inside me. I was scared for once that i might be in the wrong track. I tried a lot to control myself. One night at same we again start our chat, he proposed me in chat. I was surprised because how can i trust a person which is stranger to me. I thought he was making fun of me. I felt for him still then i told him that i can't accept some one which i have not seen. One month passed our relation was grew very strong, even i did not know that i was in love. He asked my cell number to be share with him, i thought a lot not to give. But i heart wanted him to at least have words with him for once. I gave my cell number. Felt like i was in heaven when i heard him manly voice for the first time. Months passed, i was feeling like can't live without his love. He proposed me again, this time what did i do?...was deep in love with him, his words, his manly voice, his understanding, i finally accepted him as my boy friend. He wanted to me meet and i too wished that for the all time. Passed messages in yahoo every time. Used to make me laugh every time, i used to enjoy a lot and even still i do, and will always till my lat breath.
We planned to meet, every time he used to call me. Finally i have won my love, got married with him and now i am a mother of two kids, he dad of two kids. If faith wants anything can happen. Just wait and watch.