Letting go or win him back...which is rational?
By SimpleBB
@SimpleBB (1329)
Philippines
July 29, 2010 3:19am CST
If someone got hurt in a relationship, would it be rational to just let go of the guy to be with someone else or either cursed him so not to let him be happy with someone else?
People varies in giving out love. Some says true love is by letting go and accept saying that they will be happy to where his partner could be happy. Can someone say it is really the so-called love just letting go of someone without fighting for her emotion?
But for some who did a hard fight to win back his loved one and for their feelings up to the extent of cursing their partner be into a bad situation (probably you know what I mean) instead of to be happy with someone else, what can we call them? Which could be more rational? which situation proves of a true love?
8 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
30 Jul 10
I have tried to win him back but if it doesnt work on the first try then I will let him go. I mean if I cannot make him happy then I would be happy for him if he found someone who does, and at the same time I could find someone that would make me happy.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
30 Jul 10
let them be with someone else, because he will treat them same. and i am a true beliver what goes around will come around.
to waste your time on someone who mistreated you isnt worth it at all. move on and find yourself a hero
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
30 Jul 10
Hi SimpleBB,
I would let him go. it is not worth the agrevation to make him hurt because you yourself end up hurting more. It is better to find someone knew than to wait.
Who knows you may find something better than him... I did...I did not think at time I could and I am in 40's. My boyfriend and I were just talking yesterday and he mentioned how he was afraid in the beginning starting a new relationship and that it has beeb better than he thought we are closer now and have the same valvuse and emtions and mentally we like to chat and discuss stuff whether it is our children or current events on TV or sports : we both love the same sports and or our jobs...we enjoy our walks on the weekends and he touch and feely just like I am...we communicate pretty well. If he does not like soemthing he tells me straight up so I understand him and I am the same way with him.
I wish you best of luck... but like I said let him go... once you do you will find happiness with someone else.
Thanks and have a great day!
Sincerley unique16
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Thanks for advice. I think it's really better to separate ways being friends instead of holding someone which you are not sure if still feel the same way as you do. And you're right, if you're not meant for each other, there is always someone else whom you can find happiness. Have a great day and thank you.
@ashton77 (292)
• India
29 Jul 10
As long as I feel that the love is not compromised and it still exist then we can try to get it back together. However it should be a joint discussion. If my ex is with someone else and she is not happy and still loves me, then I will never try to take her. My thought will not be about her feeling but of her present boy. I would not feel comfortable to break someone love and then make mine. I would try to explain her more properly and let her be with the present guy. We break only when things don't work out. I would never want my ex in my life because had there been love then she would not be an ex. There is no point crying over a spilled milk.
@sunsetdawn (35)
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30 Jul 10
hello :) you cant make someone love you, the old saying what will be,will be is totally true, a person could send themselves insane trying to control the outcome of relationships, if the person wants someone else then in the end that is what they will have, nothing that is said or done will change that. on the other hand if it is true love then eventually it will be. true love arrives out of nowhere it can be instant or take years if you have to fight for it then it may not be the real true love. so neither situation proves true love personally i would let them go you cant win back love.
@chiplex916 (140)
• India
29 Jul 10
If would be in my case ,I would not let my bf go with some one else so easily. I fact I would sacrifice many things to get him back. If he is wrong ,I can't be wrong too.If we really love that person ,then can we easily let that person go. He is happy with some one.,but it would be my right to bring him back in my life once again like before.
@chiplex916 (140)
• India
29 Jul 10
If would be in my case ,I would not let my bf go with some one else so easily. I fact I would sacrifice many things to get him back. If he is wrong ,I can't be wrong too.If we really love that person ,then can we easily let that person go. He is happy with some one.,but it would be my right to bring him back in my life once again like before.
